Viv, please pay careful attention.
About 10 years ago I was referred for NICE-approved treatment for M.E. by my GP, who praised the "treatment" to the skies.
I pushed hard through my GP's administrative incompetence to make sure the promise of treatment became an actual appointment, and went eagerly to the programme. When I arrived, I realised early on that it was likely to make me worse, and that the basis of the programme was unscientific gibberish. I did not continue with it. The GP accused me of refusing treatment.
About two years ago, I got another referral, this time to a consultant neurologist. Who informed me I'd been quite right to refuse the programme. Her exact words were, "That would have killed you." I hope that was hyperbole, but it would certainly have extended the very worst period of my illness for some years had I been foolish enough to follow the "treatment." During those worst years I was unable to cook a proper meal, change my own bed, clean my own toilet, or sit upright for half an hour. I was also in pain quite a bit.
Are you still reading?
Good.
Tell me. Would you, personally, Viviennemary, penalise me, PausingFlatly, for making that decision about my health? A decision which has been proven right - not least by my condition vastly improving.
And no, this isn't some anomalous, peripheral example. This is the heart of what we are talking about. Refusal of M.E. "treatment" was cited on this thread almost on the first page.
This is a yes/no question.
No pointing in another direction or waving your hands required.