andharry
I enjoyed Tom Segev's "One Palestine, Complete: Jews and Arabs Under the British Mandate"
I think Israel is a bit of a scapegoat for wider problems in the Arab and Muslim world. I mean, what exactly is Iran's issue wiht Israel other than it exists? There is no border dispute with Iran. The Iranian govt doesn't even particularly like Sunni muslims and are supporting the slaughter of them (including many Palestinians) in Syria through Assad and his Hezbollah friends so let's not pretend it's concern for Palestinian well-being (since they're responsible for far more Palestinian deaths!) And Bangladesh, Pakistan and Malaysia? Pakistan has HUGE problems of its own but you'll see the burning of the Israeli flag at demonstrations. Pretty convenient for the Pakistani leadership, I'd say, to deflect public anger from their own failings.
However, I also think that there are certain justifiable expectations from Israel which is a Western, modern, liberal democracy (yes, a flawed one, it's not Sweden, but it is a democracy with a free and open press and free and open elections and a strong civil society). I guess it's the same kind of shock regarding the behaviour of US and UK soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. Occupation of another people and democracy at home (even further complicated in Israel/Palestinians by the settlements of course) simply are not good bed-partners, you need to choose which one you want. I'm glad Israel isn't Egypt, Syria, Lebanon, Pakistan or Iran and is being held to higher moral standards.
I do agree with quivering that there is an obsession with Israel which goes beyond just concern for the Palestinians. A kind of Arab/Muslim diversion from having to be introspective about their own society and values which links up with some quite virulent anti-semitic streams. Some of the criticism and attention Israel receives is certainly justified, but the hyperbole and singling out of Israel among all the world's problems, especially in much of the Muslim world which really should deal with its own quite deplorable human rights record, is for other, less salubrious, reasons, in my opinion.