A child should not need to reassure a man following him or her.
I have told my daughter she should never confront a would-be aggressor, rapist, flasher etc in any circumstances - any of my children should run as far and as fast as they can.
If they cannot get home/somewhere safe then they solicit help from the nearest passer-by or public building.
If they have a mobile phone they call the police.
If none of that works and the would-be aggressor catches them up then they make as much noise as possible and if the stranger threatens them physically they do whatever it takes to get free - eyeballs, genitals etc
The best response is flight. The typical response may well be freeze. The emergency response is fight.
In this case it all comes down to who confronted who why and how. Which none of us will ever know as we weren't there. Hence the reasonable doubt.
As I said before third degree felony murder might have got a conviction but the prosecution ballsed up on that one.
As for the question as to why people look to be offended or look for any kind of -ism where it doesn't exist - some people - not most, not many, not all just some -
A) may well have a preconceived idea of others' actions or perceived motives borne from their own personal experience ie if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, walks like a duck mentality.
B) Others may have their own agenda - personal or political - so anything which can be used to implement that will be.
C) Finally some people need to find others to blame for every given situation instead of looking inwards.
So - as an example - a bloke serving me at the supermarket calls me 'love' - I can think he is a chauvinist or I can take it at face value
A) if past experiences with patronising leery fellas leave me cynical then I will see chauvinism. If a sweet old man my grandfather's age said the same endearment my response might be different.
but when the lass at the next counter says the same thing -
B) is she a misogynist too or just being friendly? Should I accept being called 'love' at all?
C) Another example: I do not get a promotion at work - it goes to my equally capable asian colleague. Can I accept they did a better interview than me or do I spout on about positive discrimination and say it's not faiiirrrrr in a whiny Alanis Morrisette stylee?
People are people are people. Some are twats. Many are not.
Thread hijack - cannot remember who asked but you can get these dolls at IKEA my DD wanted all three i hated them all cos they were eight quid each www.ikea.com/gb/en/search/?query=doll