amberleaf of course there are chancers who try their luck...you even accused me of claiming as a single parent or even lying when i was called in for a back to work interview....which i wasnt..if you realise at that time i had protected carers status..but yet i was still called in...now still call me a liar or a cheat....
the system does make mistakes
ppl do claim not just dla but single parents as you suggested to get more money from the system..whilst their hubby and or partner/ wife etc work and pretend not to live together/ jobseekers who claim they dont work yet have a 40 hr week job, they havent declared or use false names, national insurance etc
no-one on here would begrudge genuine claimants who need help and support, not just dla/but jobseekers/ lone parents etc etc...
and to state that not much benefit fraud goes on is ludicrous..it does...and no not from daily fail but from real life where ppl are feigning illness and disabilities to claim dla and screw the system....as i said a family member has done this for years...she is now shitting her pants with the new rules coming in as her lifestyle will be very much affected...she will not be able to afford 3-4 foreign hols a year....she can walk, very well and needs no supervison...yet is careful not to do this in public in case she is caught out
my ds was never allowed to go abroad as no company would insure him...he was a wheelchair user with severe global development delay and no dx....he was a 6mth old baby all throughout his life and i had to fight tooth and nail for him whilst others do get away with it....this makes my blood boil.
medical evidence is partially from what the patient/carer describes as what is their WORST day scenario....
for myself and others on these boards these worst day scenarios were/are 24/7 365 a year...no one would deny they need help and support
for others there are bad days offset with 100 good days...maybe less maybe more......do these ppl deserve the same level of support/ the same rate of care...i dont think so..i have an invisible disability that knocks me for six for weeks on end/ where i cant eat/shit/intermitted with bouts of severe diarrohea. vomitting up all kinds...i have had 2 resections but once i am well, i am ok ...i am not entitled to dla, i dont want to be entitled to dla...as i had a son who was more disabled than i would ever see in my life...i can not even equate my disability to his nor would i want to.....
when i lost my ds i was given one week bereavement...one lousy week, where ppl came in and took the equipment laughing about their daily lives..from the very room he had died in.....one lousy week when i was informed from housing association to start packing as in their words "we had no need for a specially adapted house now"...one lousy week to beg my employer for full time work, which i got....on top of sorting funeral arrangements for my lad....
the system stinks for the genuine out there.....
but the ones that should be blamed...yes the scroungers who drain our resources get away with it....it needs stamping out and fast...these are the ones that are allowing a mockery of the genuine....