AGree with skidoodly.
There isn't some limitless purse of money.
As for the argument that 'no one knows what's around the corner' - absolutely, none of us do - any of us could lose our job, fall ill etc. Therefore, as we are all in the same, uncertain, boat, why should some people, who try to take responsibility and plan for their future as well as the present, end up paying for those who choose not to plan?
If I lose my job, or decide to split from my husband and run two separate households, I'd be bloody grateful for the opportunity to claim benefits up to 26k. Christ, it's way more than a lot of people who work their arses off all week.
I can't get my head around this idea that people have an entitlement to have as many kids as they want, or live in a home in a certain area with a certain number of bedrooms, paid for by other people.
Many many people do plan their families carefully and limit the number of children they have so that they can afford to raise them - so why should they then be forced to pay out for other people who don't? We waited longer than we'd have liked to have dc2, because we couldn't afford childcare for two children, and needed to wait until eldest was almost at school, and then take out a loan to cover the overlap of two in childcare. We also stopped at 3 children rather than indulge ourselves with 4 (which I would have liked) because we couldn't afford 4. And before anyone pipes up and says babies don't cost much, actually, once you want to transport a family of 6 anywhere together, you can't do it in a standard family car. The fact is, practicalities like this do need to be taken into account when having a family.
I do find it rather astonishing that some people seem to have a head in the sand attitude about the cuts. I know quite sane, sensible adults, who understand full well that if they blow all the housekeeping money one month, they're up shit creek, they can't just bleat that they want more. Yet apply that situation on a wider scale - ie the country being bankrupt - and they seem to whine that it's not fair and 'someone' should provide more money 