My circumstances changed three years ago and I ended up on benefits. I have two ds.
Hate to agree but I do. I didn't then go out and have the two remaining dcs that I wished for. Instead I concentrated on getting us out of the situation, which I have.
So although the argument regarding people losing their job etc. is valid it is only a small portion of the story. There are plenty of people who have scant regard on how their children are raised, they have children simply because they can. It isn't a right, it isn't an entitlement but if you are going to concentrate on the welfare of your child then you have to take into consideration if you can afford more.
Hardly immoral. What is immoral is acting without responsibility.
Perhaps I should go out and have two children, doesn't really matter who the father/s is/are after all does it? Then I can be like my neighbour who is complaining that their fourth child is going to mean they're cramped in their house. Council won't (probably can't) move them and, how awful, the kids will have to share a room. Has worked for my two so far. Neither parent works, in the near 10 years I've lived here he has only ever had one job that lasted two weeks over Christmas. Yet they manage a flat-screen tv, plenty of booze and a holiday once a year.
You cannot be completely dependent your whole life. It isn't healthy for you and it isn't healthy for your children.
I do think on here there are some who would bash this simply because it is a Tory policy right enough.