halib - am currently years into legal proceedings after dc3's birth. the attending mw was the mw that had completed all my antenatal checks from 28 weeks - i knew her quite well. it was luck that she was there when i went into labour, and in fact she stayed on well past the end of her shift to deliver dc3. i certainly trusted her.
unfortunately she was also supervising a trainee, and the trainee was carrying out most of the observations etc. they lost the trace of the ctg and so the student was having lots of difficulty finding fhr. for about an hour.
dc3 has significant brain damage and cerebral palsy. i have absolutely no suspicion that either the mw or the student was intentionally negligent, merely that they were 'unlucky' in our case. i decided to instigate legal proceedings because i felt that the supervision of the trainee was inadequate, and the monitoring during the labour clearly fell outside nice guidelines (previous vbac).
it was actually extremely hard to decide to instigate legal proceedings against a woman i had got to know and trust over the course of 12 weeks. i still wish i could sit down and talk it through with her. but of course i can't. it's no-one's fault, it's just one of those things. but unfortunately my daughter's life has been forever changed by 'one of those things'... i wouldn't want women to not pursue a legal route because they knew the mw.
sadly, often the legal route is the only way to discover the truth of what happened behind the reticence of senior medical staff - and the only way to hope to change policies and procedures in the hope that bthe same thing doesn't happen to another family. i do resent the money-grabbing implications... we are unlikely to receive any compensation, for example - but that wasn't the reason we took the legal route.