ilove - i had a debrief when dd2 was 3 mo with the consultant obs. he told me i was lucky as she was far better off than the other baby disabled that week - a forceps delivery that had severed the spinal cord. i sort of gave up on debriefs after that...
(to be fair, he did apologise for the lack of monitoring, but without monitoring, there isn't a lot of evidence, so any definitive answer as to 'what happened' becomes a bit 'balance of probability'... and there's no way any member of the medical profession is going to admit liability (or even hazard a guess) on a balance of probability in a potential medical negligence scenario. so, all you get is 'we don't really know'.
and 'we don't really know' only gets a bit clearer when it's a lawyer asking the questions and getting independent expert opinions...
dd2 is nearly 7. the flashbacks are pretty much gone now and i'm resigned to the fact that it was probably intermittent cord compression that wasn't noticed due to the fact that they weren't monitoring fhr (against nice guidelines blah blah)
but you don't get compensation for going against nice guidelines unless you can prove that was what caused the brain damage... and you have no proof if they weren't following nice guidelines. nice little chicken and egg scenario
anyway, dd2 is happy. she isn't impressed by being disabled, and is decidely unchuffed when she can't do something that her brother and sister can, but so far she hasn't been too interested in the causation issue. i only hope that the legals finish their wrangling before she really wants to know...
frasersmum - mm, like 1 in 500 for cerebral palsy. you don't see that mentioned in mother and baby...