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Do you have good crockery and everyday crockery?

90 replies

AddingMustard · 29/01/2022 14:24

Or just crockery?
We use a mix of different eras of plain ikea plates every day, differing shapes and colours. Also kids crockery which is patterned albeit very faded now. DH thinks we should chuck the lot and use our good, wedding crockery as everyday. We rarely have guests, so it hardly ever gets used, maybe 6 times a year.

I was brought up with a set of posh crockery that only came out on special occasions so the idea seems slightly heretical to me. It would free up a cupboard though. Is good crockery a thing of the past?

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Notcontent · 29/01/2022 18:44

No - I have some nice crockery but use it everyday. I don’t really have any dinner parties and also no space to store things which don’t get used. Also, my taste has changed. I like plain, good quality crockery rather than anything gold edged or patterned.

LadyEloise1 · 29/01/2022 19:23

Everyday is ivory / cream octagonal Heritage range by Johnson Brothers ( of Eternal Beau fame ) sadly gone out of business.
I wish someone would revive the Heritage range. Hardwearing and looks good.

The " good stuff " is Old Country Roses by Royal Albert. I dislike the colour but we were given a set as a wedding present and I stupidly added to it. Now it's quite a sizeable set. Hopefully one of the dcs will take it when we're gone.

I prefer white/ivory/ cream plates as the the food looks better on them.

Isseywith3witchycats · 30/01/2022 17:07

we have the dark green denby set 12 of everything when the burgundy denby set went down to too few pieces to be useable (porcelain tiled floor in last house) my OH sourced the green on ebay a few pieces at a time its almost bombproof looks good and hardwearing it wasnt cheap cheap but reasonable affordable the most impracticle things i own are six georgous wine glasses my brother bought me 22 years ago the stems are so slender im scared to use them in case one gets broken

InconvenientPeg · 30/01/2022 17:22

We started to use the wedding denby as everyday, when the co-op plates my grandad gave me finally died. The dishwasher eats the denby though, it chips so badly it might as well be hand wash only. We got some replacements with out last Tesco vouchers and the new stuff seems better.

I have a blue and white Royal Worcester dinner service that I've collected over the years. I love it, and we're just about to get a huge dining room cupboard built, so there will be somewhere to keep it, and it will be easy to get to.

And I bought some gorgeous stoneware plates from the charity shop a few weeks ago, which are everyone's new fave plates, even though I won't let them put them in the dishwasher 😆

WhatHaveIFound · 30/01/2022 17:30

We just have crockery that we use for all occasions. We bought it overseas so it's difficult (though not impossible) to buy replacements.

I was explaining to my mum yesterday (in her mid 80s) that there was no need to save things for best at her stage of life!

gogohm · 30/01/2022 17:33

Used to, since moving in with dp we just use his good stuff, was a wedding present 30 years ago (only used a few times as exw hated it!)

FindingMeno · 30/01/2022 17:33

Our one set is used as every day.
I have just got the cups and saucers down from the loft and announced that we use 'em or lose 'em.

CMOTDibbler · 30/01/2022 17:35

We have Denby Imperial blue, a lot of which was wedding presents nearly 25 years ago. It goes through the dishwasher and we top up occasionally when bits get smashed (Denby factory shop seconds are fab) or when new pieces come out.
I see no point in keeping things for best

EssexLioness · 30/01/2022 17:43

My parents had a best set and everyday set. The posh set only ever got used on Christmas Day and for our christenings - such a waste!
I do not see the point in saving things for best when they could bring you joy every day. Seems stupid and wasteful to me. Nobody needs two sets of crockery. I also hate clutter and consumerism in general so try not to have things in excess.
I use the things I love every day, whether that is my favourite coffee cup, beautiful clothes or my favourite perfume. Otherwise these things are just going to waste, sat in a cupboard somewhere. Every day is a privilege and should be joyful.

DaisyWaldron · 30/01/2022 17:48

I don't have cupboard space for a separate set if spare dishes, and prefer plain white anyway, so I just use the supermarket stuff. I do have "good" silverware which I use for Sunday lunch, and I like nice crystal glasses, but am clumsy so don't buy them. And I have a linen tablecloth that I only use for best because I hate ironing.

But I tend to be picky about what I buy for everyday, and want something that is sturdy, beautiful and earns it cupboard space in use. So my glasses are indestructible, stackable, stylish Duralex and my mixing bowls are pretty enough to be used as serving dishes.

LadyEloise1 · 30/01/2022 17:53

For you Denby lovers ( not me ) BBC2 programme Inside the Factory at 9pm on Wednesday does Denby.

Isseywith3witchycats · 30/01/2022 18:00

@LadyEloise1 the royal albert country roses still fetches good prices at auction or on ebay very popular with the traveller community

LadyEloise1 · 30/01/2022 18:02

Vera Duckworth of Corrie fame had it as her "good" set apparently.

crazyjinglist · 30/01/2022 18:08

We just have crockery. Some people in our house are quite clumsy and often break things so we don't do expensive tableware. We got a plain white set as wedding presents, much of which has now been replaced with similar but not the same white stuff. I prefer plain white crockery anyway.

N0tfinished · 30/01/2022 19:08

I was given a really pretty full set by MIL which I keep for special occasions. It's fragile & vintage so I don't think it would survive every day life. I have used it quite a bit though - Christmas, birthdays, communions etc.I recently replaced our everyday set cos there it was all chipped and mismatched. I just chose a mason cash pattern from a hardware store and got 10 of everything.

ahcmonnow · 30/01/2022 19:17

No. Life is too short to have the good stuff put away for a special occasion...every day is special while your crockery gathers dust in a cabinet squirrelled away until a time comes that is deemed "special" enough to use it. No. I used to do this until I realised how stupid it was so now I enjoy by "good Delph" every day.

ahcmonnow · 30/01/2022 19:18

@EssexLioness

My parents had a best set and everyday set. The posh set only ever got used on Christmas Day and for our christenings - such a waste! I do not see the point in saving things for best when they could bring you joy every day. Seems stupid and wasteful to me. Nobody needs two sets of crockery. I also hate clutter and consumerism in general so try not to have things in excess. I use the things I love every day, whether that is my favourite coffee cup, beautiful clothes or my favourite perfume. Otherwise these things are just going to waste, sat in a cupboard somewhere. Every day is a privilege and should be joyful.
Exactly! Very well said.
Dasher789 · 30/01/2022 19:22

We have a Denny set of plates, bowls etc that we use everyday.

Other than a set of Christmas plates that were my Grandma’s, we don’t have any others.

We do have a fancy box of special occasion cutlery. I wouldn’t be adverse to using it every day but it’s silver so it’s kept as occasion only because they need polished.

HeidiHaus · 30/01/2022 19:23

Anything that can't be dishwashed is a no-no!

Knittingnanny2 · 30/01/2022 19:27

I’ve only got one set. Royal Doulton Lambeth ware which despite being purchased in 1981, has gone in the dishwasher , freezer and microwave. I bought 8 of everything and over the years, despite having 3 children, only broken a couple of bits
It’s lasted 35 years longer than the accompanying husband stayed around for!
I do look at other sets enviously in the shops sometimes and think, “ I’ll never get to buy a different set” as it seems indestructible!

woodhill · 30/01/2022 20:07

I have Christmas holly plates dm bought me in the 80s, I do put it in the dishwasher

I prefer to keep some crockery for "best". I also have a wedge wood tea set

tinkywinkyshandbag · 30/01/2022 22:13

No good crockery just a random collection of ikea and supermarket

Hydrate · 30/01/2022 22:24

Harlequin Denby is our everyday, Royal Albert Country Rose (inherited, not really us) for special occasions. If I had a larger kitchen I would get another set for everyday as my Denby is heavy (arthritis), and does not microwave that well. I wondered if the newer Denbys are a lighter weight.

parched · 30/01/2022 22:28

Yes, until I got divorced. Now my "best" wedding crockery is used every day.

BackInBlackAgain · 31/01/2022 08:15

I am nearly 50 and I have never in my life had a second set of crockery for best, never got one as a wedding present.

My plates are all a mish mash of supermarkets, I had 3 clumsy sons but now they have all moved out I am going to treat myself to a nice set, nothing too expensive and bin all my old, chipped and faded plates.

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