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Festive building work, house moving and fledglings flying. Gotta be the December thread.

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CantSee4Looking · 01/12/2015 00:26

Morning

It's December. Are you ready for this?
festive cleaning, decluttering and then the required throwing about of sparkly stuff in the name of the holidays? No? Yeah neither are the rest of us. But let's do this.

So we sorta follow the Fat fairy and her fly lady system. We have adapted to suit lifestyles and sometimes roll our eyes at the fluffiness of the website but we do:
1. 15mins decluttering
2. Missions and Zones
3. have a naughty corner bar but someone else can decorate it this year

All the links can be found from the launch pad

But as it is the 1st of December It is babystep 1. This one looks easy. Shine your sink.

missions are here

The zone is zone 1 which is the porch, dining room and hallway. 15minutes folks, 15 minutes. get that decluttering done.

Tuesday is planning day

And just for the crazy people Christmas missions are here

the 1st Christmas mission

Oh yeah, the disclaimers:
long running thread, regulars been here years so can seem clicky, we're not. Newbies are always welcome we just as you to be respectful

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WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeG0es · 07/12/2015 22:44

Well, the great house moving escapade of last week is now starting to feel like a distant memory, a lot of the stuff that was stashed away is out again and our house feels more like home than showhome. We will probably put it back on the market next year but for now this is home. Christmas tree was purchased on Saturday (from a farm where you go out on a tractor to choose your own to be cut down, DS found what turned out to be the best shaped tree we've had in years) and the decorations are all up, just need to get the boxes back in the loft now. But it is hectic week again, either DH or I are out every night. Christmas shopping isn't finished and Christmas cards aren't written, however that is normal for me at this stage and I'm not worried yet.

Happy Birthday Fuzz!

knittingwithnettles · 07/12/2015 23:33

today I have just been dealing with

solicitor
schools
ski trip meeting, more driving
v tired dd (who was determined to go to school to ice her cake blue, cake decorating classes! (part of general creative curriculum, sometimes it is sewing sometimes cooking on Monday)
ds1 had a mock GSCE in Maths and Geography

drove ds2 to and from school
tidied kitchen

nicknacks hurray for new sofas
SC every year I love hearing your St Nicolas traditions, and imagining dd getting older and now she is voluntarily having a bath [faints] I told you it would kick in at a certain age.

Well dd was in a serious grouch with me this evening because I had the temerity to suggest in front of the ski sales person (selling discount stuff at school) that her thermals might need to be size 12, cue angry wail that she was size 8 not 12. Then when we got home, she insisted that she didn't need supper because only fat people needed supper [oh dear] However she did eat some in the end. She has some very skinny friends so is getting very upset about her imagined fatness (she is not fat at all, just tall and Norman)

fuzzpig · 08/12/2015 08:30

Thank you for the birthday wishes everyone! Thanks It was a lovely, chilled day :)

Time for panic tidy now - pupil at 10 Xmas Blush

Back to catch up later! Have a good day folks!

SearedChestnut · 08/12/2015 08:56

Good morning!

Fuzzpig a belated "many happy returns" for yesterday! Hope you had a lovely day!

Having "elevenses" here currently as dh woke me up with a bacon butty at 4.30 am this morning as he headed off on this travels. Confused He said he was "celebrating" the fact that we had HP sauce (a rare commodity here) Confused.

DD delivered to school early for exams (tense week). Three down, seven to go. For what are simple end-of-term exams for 1st years, they appear to be a very "big deal" - take place in mahoosive exam hall - all pens/pencils etc in see-through plastic bag - different years seated next to each other with different language papers to avoid cheating - start at 8am and finish at 1.15pm (a challenge for dd who finds focusing for such a long period of time quite difficult) with only a 15 min break in between. Just another part of this endless cycle of reports, exams, reports, exams, reports.

DD has only been at this school since Sept and we will have received three reports by Christmas (very detailed ones too). The assessment is verging on the obsessive. I wouldn't say this to dd of course, but the thought of 7 more years of this seems rather daunting and oppressive. It's getting to the point where she has barely learnt something before she is assessed in it!

Anyway, rather glad of the fact that she is allowed to come home afterwards as she was wiped out yesterday when she got back. I'm cooking stacks of healthy food to keep her going! And they are apparently going on a trip to the theatre next week! Yay!

Rather a surreal day yesterday.

Morning spent wrestling with very unhappy dog at vets. Despite him being a small dog, it took three of us to hold him down on the table while vet delivered more injections, which gave rise to horrible whimpering and distress and attempted biting (which is not like him at all Sad).

Early afternoon spent with solicitor sorting out our last will and testament, addressing somewhat distressing subjects such as who will look after dd in the event of our deaths, who will look after her temporarily until her permanent guardian arrives, who will inherit what, should dh or myself die, or if all three of us die all together. Everything had to be hand-written and there is nothing quite like writing and putting one's signature to the phrase "Je souhaite etre incinéré" to make you confront your own mortality!! Grin

Flying = absolutely none! Spent rest of time frantically packing parcels!

Whoknows good to hear that "normal service has resumed" at home! Your Christmas tree sounds lovely!

Whey-hey wrt: missing desk finally arriving Blue!

Blue and Nicknacks reading your posts I now have a serious case of "new furniture envy" Grin!!

Can't very impressed by you attempting to knit socks! My Irish granny (who used to knit socks for all nine of her dc!) said they were very difficult to do: all that diminishing and escalating (or whatever it is called in knitting parlance) and turning of the heel and getting the elasticity of the ankle correct! [Doffs hat] Sounds like the perfect distraction from renovation work though!

Knitting it is difficult with adolescent girls and issues surrounding weight. DD suggested to me yesterday that one good way of losing weight was to use a smaller plate. When I asked her where she had gleaned that piece of information she said "we were all talking about it at school" Sad. Given that she is stick thin and only 12 yrs old, I can't help but find this deeply depressing.

Big waves to Shannara Stillwearing and everyone else in or hovering around the coop!

To do: walk dog, pack parcels, walk dog, pack parcels, walk dog, pack parcels.

Back to join others rocking in the corner later! Grin

CantSee4Looking · 08/12/2015 09:21

SC i have come to the conclusion that the knitting of 1 sock is not the issue, it is the knitting of a pair of socks that are the same size and tension that is the issue Hmm although the 1st one turned out too big so need to make a pair that are smaller and actually fit ds rather than trip him up Grin

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fuzzpig · 08/12/2015 09:25

That sounds like DH's school carpentry project that he told me about. He made a chair, but the legs weren't even so he sanded them down. It kept happening, so he ended up with a footrest instead :o

knittingwithnettles · 08/12/2015 11:27

omg, "I would like to be incinerated" Shock cremation sounds much more genteel. Very good of you to do all the will stuff. I think it is important and puts one's mind at rest. I'm always saying to dh, but what if I die and then you marry someone else and they murder you or you die of an apopletic fit in their care, and then the stepmother throws our children out of the house (like Mary Portas) or takes all the assets for her own children - what then. He looks most disapproving when I say these things. It is better to have it all signed and sealed, but possibly a bit too Lemony Snicket to think about.

Greymalkin · 08/12/2015 11:53

Hello everyone, I'm just de-lurking for a bit.

Having a slow morning here thanks to DS getting me up at just after 4am. He is refusing to get/stay dressed so I had to cancel my doctors appointment this morning; would never have got there!

Glad you had a good birthday fuzz

knitting and SC - DH and I started organising our wills months ago but now we have stalled. I need to hand write out my reasoning for preventing my father from inheriting anything and from coming anywhere near DS. It's an ugly story and putting onto paper is rather tricky.

Can't - I could never get the hang of knitting so admire anyone who can. I can do some basic crochet through.

Some ta das:
Made two beds
Dealt with cat litter trays
Emptied kitchen bin
Folded and put away one wash load
Put on a second wash load
Rebooked doctors appointment

To do:
Skim through slow cooker recipe book for some inspiration
Wrap up eBay parcels
List a few bits on eBay
Declutter in the dining room for a bit

BlueEyeshadow · 08/12/2015 13:57

Waves to Grey.

Well done on the wills, SC. We did them a few years ago and it is a scary prospect. You've reminded me that we need to tell the will writers our new address though.

Grin at the footstool, Fuzz, and the socks, Cant

Won't be woohooing the arrival of the desk until I know that I'm not going to end up with 2 of the blasted things, and especially that I won't be charged for 2 of them! SC

Ta da!
Been to the dentist
Bits of Christmas shopping
Booked hair appointment
Built new shoe rack and put shoes on it

To do
Take DS2 to the barber after school. He decided that the chap who cut DS1's hair on Sat. was a "nice man" and having been very anti the idea of a hair cut, is now very keen.

NickNacks · 08/12/2015 14:13

Ds1 birthday today! He's growing up so fast and I slightly scared. Teenagedom will hit us next year and I don't think I'm ready.

I'm feeling slightly accomplished because I took three toddlers to the local nativity this morning and it was reasonably successful! Two are now sleeping and I'm grabbing some lunch.

Sofas have gone (council collected) and so sat around on garden furniture is really fun Hmm I'm determined to keep up with the decluttering (again) I love our house so much more when it's lovely and clear and easy to look after.

fuzzpig · 08/12/2015 17:01

Happy birthday to not-so-little-Nick! Cake Eeeek at approaching adolescence. If it helps though I'm sure nobody really feels ready for the teen years. Mind you it's easy for me to say as I've had a sort of rehearsal with my DSCs :o

I've achieved bugger all today, well apart from piano teaching - although pupil arrived a bit early and we were in chaos! It was lucky I'd already got dressed Blush lesson went well though. I'm really getting to know my different pupils' learning styles and personalities and it's really fun adapting my teaching to suit them. That sort of thing didn't really happen at the music school I worked in because it was all based around the exam syllabus. I have also played lots myself today (Christmas carols! [santa]) and taught DD something new too.

I've just sent DCs back upstairs to find the last chess piece that they'd lost when playing this morning - DD has made me sad because she said it doesn't matter, we can just buy a new one :( I know that attitude has been caused by the state of the house (because TBH we do often have to buy things because the original has been lost/damaged) so I'm feeling rather ashamed, but trying to use that to spur me on.

We are going to stick some Christmas music on and wrap some presents as well as do a festive craft that my mum gave us, but I'm going to try and get some stuff done first. DH has got to work an extra hour due to staffing, thankfully I got some easy food in the delivery yesterday so dinner won't tax me too much. Might make French toast for pudding as I forgot yesterday and have berries to use up. Will be a good incentive to get stuff done!

fuzzpig · 08/12/2015 19:04

a bit too Lemony Snicket to think about

This made me :o :o

(The books are awesome. The film was an abomination. IMO)

StillWearingOddSocks · 08/12/2015 19:22

Hello all

Fuzz I can relate to the chess piece comment. It's the kind of thing that happens / is said in this house too.

French toast! Using up berries! How organised. Now THAT is the kind of thing that NEVER happens in this house Biscuit[santa]

CantSee4Looking · 08/12/2015 22:21

launch pad

babystep

Wednesday is anti-procrastination day

Declutter in the Kitchen

Missions

Christmas missions NB i am only posting these for the slight hysterical inducing giggle it gives me please ignore Will update at midnight, links to missions you may have mission at bottom.

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SearedChestnut · 08/12/2015 22:37

Can't totally forgot you had to make a pair (duh!) Sounds hideously difficult!

Fuzzpig and Knitting Grin Grin at footstool and Lemony Snicket! Grin

Blue I think you should be charging them after all this inconvenience!!

Fuzzpig would give my eye teeth to be able to play carols on the piano!

Knitting you should definitely write a teen adventure novel Smile

Sympathies Nicknacks Approaching adolescence here too and seriously worried that I am not going to cope with it very well. Absolutely loved baby/infant/toddler/young child stage - loved all the imaginative play and getting messy with crafts - don't think I have a good skill set for handling teens. Nativity sounded lovely btw!

Grey wills situation does indeed sound stressful; hope you will feel reassured when it is all written down in black and white. Congrats on ta da list - which is long - esp good achievement on so little sleep

Big waves to Stillwearing and everyone else!

Bit of a stressful day here (family Christmas negotiations continuing ...) but packed and sent first tranche of parcels to far flung places. I say this every year - but it always astounds me how long packing up a post-worthy parcel takes!

DD still stressed by exams.

Wednesday again tomorrow (full day of volunteering without lunch break this time) and dh away again which means I can only drop dd off at school and collect from ballet which leaves office cleaner and baby-sitter and dog-walker filling in for me in between. An expensive day! To be fair, it would be much the same if dh were here but I'm back at home briefly at lunch time to walk the dog and he could usually do one set of ballet or school runs.

School officially breaking up on the 19Th but dd will only be attending next week for a couple of hours to collect her exam results and report so same situation next week. I don't know how on earth working parents do it. I only volunteer x 3 half days (sometimes x 4) and only have one child and I'm already finding the logistics difficult ... . Although it's probably just me making a meal of things as usual.

Heigh ho! G'night all!

knittingwithnettles · 08/12/2015 22:46

I had a wonderful chess set once where I had to make all the pieces. That took me ages...I was very careful with them afterwards Wink Tbh I wish there was a sort of website where you could buy all the bits and pieces that you lose from games...it seems wrong to buy a completely new set when just one piece is missing, even if that new set is secondhand...

Greenhouse has been delivered! not assembled till next week though.

More discussions about party, causing quite a lot of aggro already, children all have different ideas about the form this party will take, and as for dh...well he has vetoed several neighbours Hmm

Nothing has been done though..I'm hoping magically I will get more motivated next week. Ds1's gsce mocks are a mild irritant. And as for the EHCP it is slow torture.

knittingwithnettles · 08/12/2015 22:56

I did ring IPSEA though. Such a sensible bunch. I always feel calmer after I talk to them (although I don't mention the solicitor or they would just think I am weird!)

SC how frustrating having dh away when everything is clashing. Do the nuns realise how awkward it is for you? You are kind to help so much, just remember that they probably want it to work for you too, so that you continue to volunteer, so don't burn out.

Fuzz I loved the film, and I still hope one day there will be a sequel! I especially love the music, anything by that composer makes my hair stand on end, in a good way.

SearedChestnut · 08/12/2015 23:15

Thanks Knitting I'm only half a day with the nuns so no chance of burn out! It would admittedly be better if I was required to help any other day than a Wednesday! I'm just a bit fed up with dh travelling so much; decisions get delayed and progress with house put off (again) and just everything seems more difficult somehow. Things should improve in a couple of years when dd will be old enough to get herself to school/ballet and back!

Good that you found convo with IPSEA calming!

CantSee4Looking · 09/12/2015 01:25

You have all reminded me that our draughts pieces broke (a good number split) and needed replacing. Will be in town tomo so some nice coloured large buttons will do as a replacement. Not in the mood to convince ds to make some new wooden ones.

I have come across spare playing pieces on amazon before but it depends on what you are looking for.

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SearedChestnut · 09/12/2015 06:21

Morning all!

Forgot to say yesterday:

Belated "Happy Birthday" to your ds1 Nicknacks

Fuzz the board game we played was the Sherlock Holmes one (dd is obsessed with SH)

Woken up in a more militant mood today. Frankly, if dh makes any comment at all about needing to pay baby-sitters, dog-walkers etc I will tell him (a) I have had to give up all proper job prospects (+ a load of attendant self respect) living here (mainly for tax reasons) and I am well going to volunteer 1.5 days a week even if it does cause difficulties and (b) if it made any difference I would try and fit volunteering in to evening and weekends, but he is always working then too! So there! [Blows raspberry]

[SC avoids all thoughts of sorting guest rooms and holiday serving dishes (thanks Flylady Confused) dons suffragette banner and marches off in to gloom ... ]

Have a good day everyone!

SearedChestnut · 09/12/2015 06:46

That should have read "$$^^ùùù!!èè§§" well going to ... Grin

Right, off to deliver dd to school!

NickNacks · 09/12/2015 06:58

Thank you sc Smile

Good morning [yawn] terrible night's sleep, I've been awake since 3.30am. We have so much going on right now and I'm crap at dealing with stress. I was so unbelievably tired yesterday and today will be even worse because I haven't slept well. Such a viscous circle isn't it?

So today is Christmas party for toddler group. I help run it so lots to do as well as cm my own 3 little ones. Ergh!

fuzzpig · 09/12/2015 08:55

Knitting some companies will send replacement game pieces for free :) DH found the last pawn thankfully.

Ooh SC was that 221b Baker Street? That's the one we have anyway as DH is also a SH fan... I'm not really smart enough to work out the answers though, I will always lose! Xmas Blush

I really REALLY need to get my sorry arse out of bed now. It's the home ed Christmas party at the adventure playground!

Wrapped 10 presents with the DCs yesterday, and also hid away in the bedroom and started to get the rest into some form of organisation. Goodness me, so many boxes Xmas Shock no 'big ticket' item this year for the DCs so they have lots of little bits and pieces.

knittingwithnettles · 09/12/2015 17:02

Ds2 had a very good day today, including a bit of dry slope ski-ing! I picked him up and he was bantering with all the other boys, or at least they all hailed each other heartily in farewell, which must be a good sign.

Dh has put up the fairy lights on the new shed, so outside is all twinkly (but I do hate flashing lights), dd's packet mix sponge is surprisingly good (that was the one they iced - the precious home made baked one was eaten last week)

boys fighting though, winter evenings always seem quite badtempered.

another bit of progress with EHCP, SALT finalised so sent that off to LA.

Why oh why do all these things have to happen at once?

Nicknacks ooh it's horrible when you cannot sleep for being on alert, hope you got through today and sofas arrive soon. Although lots of toddlers does sound better than a house full of sulky teens, at least they don't have any targets or homework!

SC it's your joint money after all!

todo
make bed with new sheets
wash yet another pile of laundry
order some Christmas presents, this is getting a bit desperate.Blush Odder and odder things keep arriving ordered by DH, today it was some staging, which I assumed was something to do with the Hornby, but it turns out it is for the greenhouse and therefore a "surprise"

fuzzpig · 09/12/2015 17:29

Ah knitting we shall have to agree to disagree about the film! I just disliked it because it (IMO) messed about with the books too much. I felt the same about the Golden Compass. (I've heard the His Dark Materials books are being made into a BBC series though, which I'm really excited about!)

I'm intrigued about the music though - I don't remember what it was like (too busy being indignant while watching it I suppose :o Blush) so I'll look that up, as I do love good film music. A recent favourite is the music from Star Trek Into Darkness - not my kind of film (DH loves it) but the music is lovely.

Your make-your-own chess set sounds pretty cool! I like creating bits of games. We have a set of Game of Life where the buildings were just white plastic. I used my dad's modelling paint to decorate them - the church even has stained glass windows :o I'm thinking of upgrading our uber-cheap chess set next Christmas though - I've found a Thunderbirds one, which would be a joint present for DS and DH!

The home ed party was AMAZING. I am very tired and achy but it was just brilliant. My DCs have been to this place with CM and some other friends, but I'd always been working so had never been myself. I just kept looking around at this huge rabble of muddy, windswept, happy children of all ages and backgrounds, playing together. It's a world away from the misery my DCs faced in the school playground, and if there was any doubt left in my mind that we made the right choice to withdraw them, today has certainly removed it. I may have got a bit sniffly Blush