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Kondoing this and kondoing that - thread 4 for Marie Kondo's lifechanging magic with tidying. All welcome!

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TheSporkforeatingkyriarchy · 23/12/2014 18:09

Here's thread 4 for all the KonMario converts, wannabes, and guests to the magic!

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GatoradeMeBitch · 04/01/2015 02:51

I wish I could 'Kondo' my brain. Nearly 3am and I don't want to go to bed yet because I'm nearly at the end of a Hercule Poirot marathon. Why do I do these things? I know I'll be knackered tomorrow, and for no good reason...

I'll be looking at knickers and handbags tomorrow. I got sick of black sock mountain and it's been decanted into a binbag. I just don't know whether I should bin it, or if the Sally Army can do with about 100 single black socks?

ZingTheGreat · 04/01/2015 03:40

welcome to the club gatorade Grin

join the Night Owls!

whatsonyourplate · 04/01/2015 07:34

catsofa search for 'your town sell/selling/sale/wanted/preloved' to find Facebook selling groups. If it's a closed group only members will see your posts, if it's an open group your friends might see your posts on their newsfeed.

Violetta999 · 04/01/2015 08:05

Quite excited! A whole day of DIY for DH and cleaning/kondoing/DIY for me today. I don't quite know what's come over me as usually such a day would fill me with dread.

Violetta999 · 04/01/2015 08:10

Coffee first though!!

Violetta999 · 04/01/2015 08:13

100 odd socks makes me think of sock puppets. That's something reception aged children would make maybe?

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JKSLtd · 04/01/2015 08:34

Dh re admitted to hosp yesterday. I got home about 1. So no plans to manage anything today. Waiting for update from him before deciding what to do.
Ongoing pancreas issues.
Have my parents here so I could go to him but they aren't great with kids. Tricky.

VioletandRoger · 04/01/2015 08:38

Tis I Violetta with slight name change.

Ohhelp its addictive isn't it. I really wish I had a whole week without any interruptions to finish sorting and rolling

VioletandRoger · 04/01/2015 08:40

JKS I hope DH is ok. Must be worrying

HiccupHaddockHorrendous · 04/01/2015 08:52

Hi everyone. I got back yesterday, a day early and made a good start on the clutter.

Where do you all store your towels? My bathroom is tiny (and downstairs), has a small cupboard on the wall and the towels/spare toiletries were stored in another small cupboard on the floor. I have cleared the spare toiletries and kondo'd some towels so the cupboard is now empty and out of the bathroom (not sure if I should re-purpose it somewhere else in the house on put it on fb) but not sure where to store the towels. There's not currently anywhere in the kitchen to keep them but that might change. If they are stored upstairs, will it be a pain when I inevitably forget to take one with me when I have a shower?! My first thought was to buy a towel rail to put in the new space but I'm now talking myself out of this.

Hmm, think it's going to be a very long process Grin

HiccupHaddockHorrendous · 04/01/2015 08:55

X-post, JKS. Hope your dh is ok Flowers

VioletandRoger · 04/01/2015 09:01

Our towels are in a bedroom cupboard with bed sheets/pillow cases etc. Its not a permanent location for them but will do for the moment.

CoolCadbury · 04/01/2015 09:07

JKS I hope is okay.

hiccup one of the reasons it is taking me so long is that I spend quite a long time contemplating what to put where and in what containers as I want to achieve perfection the first time round.

CoolCadbury · 04/01/2015 09:11

JKS I meant your DH is ok.

whatsonyourplate · 04/01/2015 09:22

I have made a start at last. Started with my undewear draw as it was driving me nuts. 1st photo is contents of draw emptied out so I could mend the draw. 2nd photo is with at least 1/3 chucked and everything folded and rolled. Could probably chuck more, I was being conservative.

Starface · 04/01/2015 09:26

JKS hope hubby is ok Flowers

Hiccup. My towels are in bathroom, in a box rolled up (clean) or hanging (drying after use). I need things right next to place of use. I invariably forget and it annoys me when I leave my towelling robe in my bedroom which is right by the bathroom. I would be a streaker in my own home if bathroom was downstairs and towels upstairs.

MsBug · 04/01/2015 09:59

Catsofa will you be going on mat leave soon, if so you might get chance to eBay some bits then. I have reduced the eBay pile by setting a minimum price limit eg.£10, anything which I don't think will fetch that amount goes to charity instead.

Welcome mrsvet. Sympathies on your dh, he sounds a lot like mine. With joint stuff, he has agreed to throw some things away, I think that if you initiate the process by showing him each item and asking if he wants to keep it, then it forces him to make an active choice whether to keep the item or not, and there is quite a lot which he isn't bothered by and agrees to chuck for a quiet life. However dp definitely isn't as into the whole decluttering spirit as me and he wants to keep a lot 'just in case'. For example, we bought some new wine glasses because we didn't like the old ones, but he still wanted to keep the old ones in the loft.

Pointlessfan · 04/01/2015 10:01

Hope your husband is ok, JKS.
We recently had a new bathroom and we were going to buy some sort of storage unit for towels etc but then kondoing happened and now they fit comfortably rolled in the drawer under our bed. Very pleased as it saved buying furniture.
We kept most towels too, including some older ones to use when we go camping. Can't decide whether to keep them with the other towels or put them in the camping boxes in the garage.

themummyonthebus · 04/01/2015 10:22

Hope your husband is doing ok JKS Flowers

StuntNun · 04/01/2015 10:28

When are you due Catsofa? I'm due on the 27th April and I'm desperate to have the house in order before the baby arrives as there won't be much chance with a newborn and a toddler in the house. This will be my last child so I'm quite looking forward to being able to get rid of all the baby stuff once he grows out of it, especially the clothes that have been stored from one child to the next.

HermioneGrangerHair · 04/01/2015 10:52

Great progress everywhere but here, I think! Well done comrades!

I broke the prescribed order, yesterday, and dealt with my toiletries and first aid stuff straight after clothes. Made sense to me, because I've been struggling with bad cold and chest infection since Christmas Eve, so trying to make a start on the more manageable categories (definitely not books!). I can sort of understand some of her order, now, because pulling out all the toiletries has displaced a whole load of other crap: notebooks, pens, blood pressure monitors, old alarm clocks, Swiss army knives... I'm not ready to sort those just yet, so to clear a drawer for the newly sorted toiletries, I've had to dump all that other stuff into another drawer. That did not feel good.

Welcome to new joiners.

Catsofa (is that "cats of a..." or "cat sofa"?) - I'm going to have to deal with legacy stuff from my late father, so I sympathise with your situation. I now realise that, until I committed to clearing my living space, I've been avoiding even thinking about that stuff, much less engaging with it. I'm starting to feel like if I can reduce it to a handful of things that really mean something to me, I will engage with them frequently, and that seems a better memorial to my dad than the rather-intimidating museum exhibit it is at the moment.

I totally agree with about iqueen about the process being contagious: My husband is actually talking about getting rid of ... a watch! Shock Wink I know that sounds silly, but it tells me a) he is paying attention to what I'm doing to my stuff; b) he recognises it as a good thing and c) he's starting to wonder how he might apply it to himself. We'll see how it plays out.

JKS, my best wishes to you and your husband.

JKSLtd · 04/01/2015 11:13

Thanks everyone. It's been ongoing for a few months now and am sceptical but hopeful that this time things may get fixed.

Must remember to sort ds2's school bag out if nothing else today! The other two go back on Tuesday so an extra day to sort.

Going to have a bath then see what I can do to feel some sense of achievement today.

PeoniesforMissAnnersley · 04/01/2015 11:16

mrsV (love the name by the way, although I'd marry Vimes not Vetinari though he's way too old for me Grin )

With gifts I am now utterly ruthless, I used to keep them in the garage or cupboards for a year or so then chuck but have decided this is completely pointless and a drag for me to have to store stuff I KNOW I won't ever use. I opened q parcel from an elderly relative and literally put each thing straight into the chairty bag. I feel a bit sorry for her, but she didn't ask me if I already had a calendar, or if I liked the chintzy, dreadful one she sent, and all the clothes she sends are 2-3 sizes too big as she thinks clothing sizes are unimportant, I mean stuff in 12 or 14 when I am a 6-8. Confused it's like she wants the stuff not to be useful. So weird. If she even gave me the price of postage for a glass of wine with DH I'd rather that, but she insists on sending bucket loads of useless tat. Very frustrating.

PeoniesforMissAnnersley · 04/01/2015 11:17

JKS all my best wishes to you and DH. I've had a rough ride health wise this year and I know how disheartening it is to end up back in hospital after you've been told all is well. They will get there in the end! Keep pressuring them and holding them to account.
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