Woah, a lot to read! Have had ILs here all day or I would have been on earlier.
About shining sinks, I do think it is a symbolic step mostly. I think it is supposed to represent a clean start, and also encourage you to get started on the rest of the kitchen as you can't just pile plates up in a clean sink. I also think it represents what fly lady is ultimately trying to make us do - do not let the fact that it is going to get messed up again stop you doing it in the first place as the best way to get something clean is to do it very often, a little bit at a time. If you clean it and then someone messes it up with breakfast, it will take you less time to clean it up the next time as there will be less dirt on it. Also, it sets a good example to those around you, if DH makes breakfast on a dirty surface, he's likely to leave it that way, if it is on a clean surface, he's more likely to want to return it to it's original state, as it becomes his responsibility, rather than everyone who has made it dirty - it becomes nobody's responsibility then. My DH is the messiest bugger known to man, but flying definitely still makes him take more responsibility for tidying up his crap, as it passes responsibility for mess in our home to him rather than divided between the two of us and thus easier to blame on the other person. I think I might have been reading too many of flylady's emails 
I don't really 'do' resolutions as I just break them, but if I did, I would definitely be following NickNacks lead and putting more sex on the list :o Two DC under two definitely put the brakes on things for a few years, we have been starting to get back in the swing of things lately, but have had a spate of illness recently which has put it on the back seat a bit. Will try and start the new year as I intend to go on by making my intentions known to DH later, but only after Sherlock 
About DC's eating habits, we have always been quite relaxed about it all. As far as we are concerned, it is our responsibility to provide them with food, and theirs to eat it. Even when they were tiny, if they didn't eat what was given, we didn't pay any attention and didn't offer an alternative as we assumed they weren't hungry. DS is going through quite a fussy stage, but we're still the same. He used to eat virtually everything, so he's still offered virtually everything, the only thing we know he doesn't like at all is mushrooms and we don't offer those. It probably seems a but harsh to some, but it works for us, we don't have any food battles round the table.
Just want to wish the best of luck to those of you TTC, it is a really tough time and I really hope 2014 brings wonderful new little people into your lives :)
Dizzy - really sorry to read about your difficulties with your DH, we are all listening if you need to talk, it has been so lovely to find such a supportive bunch in this group :) 
Eustacia - it was me after an android app, thank you, I will let my friend know :)
Ok, so, my ta da list is not quite so impressive as yesterday's :o
Made beds
D/W twice
Cleaned kitchen surfaces several times
Swept kitchen floor
S&S
Tidied DS bedroom
Tidied living room this evening
Wrapped up parcel to send tomorrow (as my anti-procrastination mission, one thing in it is a birthday gift from August )
I didn't manage the mission today as ILs were here from 11 and they didn't leave until 5pm, so I wasn't mad enough to be outside washing my front door in the dark :o
I have also put a step on my app to update this thread every day, I definitely need the motivation as that is a key part of why I don't keep on top of the house :(
Anyway, sorry for the mammoth post! Hope you are all having a lovely evening :)