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Fledglings Fly into July!

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BlueEyeshadow · 30/06/2012 21:28

Welcome to the July 2012 Fledgling Flyers thread. Park your mops, buckets and microfibre cloths here!!

A huge "thank you" to SanguineChompa for leading us throughout June!! Thanks

If your house is a mess and you are strugging with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and wine along the way.

We advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.

From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's tips on restoring order to our homes, and as we are all at different stages we will be using one of the following methods:

  • repeat or start baby steps
  • repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.

All welcome!!

Apologies for starting the thread so late - it took SC lobbing the duster at me to make me remember it's July tomorrow (and I've blatantly cut and pasted her OP too)!

The first baby step is to shine your sink! See here for the Fat Fairy's tutorial...

No mission because it's Sunday. But here's the flight plan for established flyers

OP posts:
ToffeeWhirl · 06/07/2012 21:24

OFM - how odd that your DS2 has been sick once, but is now fine - just like mine. My DS2 didn't eat much all day, but he was in good spirits and played happily, then ate quite a good dinner. Sorry you've had such a hard week. I hope your weekend makes up for it.

Angelico - welcome to the thread. No wonder you are in chaos with renovations and pregnancy going on. You are welcome to come on here and chat, even if you don't have time to do any Flying. You can deregister from the Flylady emails, by the way (I did).

Swan - what a sociable day you are having! I hope you enjoy your night out in the pub with your friend.

Am feeling better, thanks to giving in to DH's offer of a glass of wine. Wine seems to be much more effective than paracetamol.

Managed to put some of the never-ending pile of clean washing away during DS2's bathtime tonight, so the basket looks a bit less mountainous now. Apart from that, I confess that I have done very little Flying today.

No word from DS1, so I suppose he's fine. I always feel a bit unsettled because there have been so many occasions when he's had to come home, but that hasn't happened recently, so I'm sure he's OK. Wish I could switch off the low-level worry though.

Night all.

BlueEyeshadow · 06/07/2012 21:51

Waves to all and sundry and a big welcome to Angelico - would definitely second Toffee re unsubscribing from the Fly Lady emails.

Sorry about the knee, Bitchy and that you didn't get any spa time swan.

OFM / Toffee - both boys have had random throwing up and then being completly fine. Weird isn't it? Hope they're OK now and that you're feeling better too Toffee.

Hope you're enjoying yourself, whatever you decided about the camping WhoKnows. It was a glorious afternoon here after an abysmal morning...

Anyway, I shall now post the links, wave madly to anyone I missed and disappear. Really need to get off the computer now.


Babystep 7 is another good one - picking out your clothes the evening before.
No mission because it's the weekend, but tomorrow's flight plan has other useful reminders. Saturday is Family Fun Day...
*

Night!

OP posts:
WitchyBitchy · 07/07/2012 00:29

Went training. Knee is feeling better for it. But dosed up on various med so hopefully whatever it does it doesn't keep me up tonight.

Meh to the earlier list. Hmm

Honu · 07/07/2012 06:37

Have read through the past couple of days' posts. Maggie I so feel for you. I have tried to pm you but MN is having none of it atm so will try again later. Toffee the provision your LEA is making for your DS1 doesn't sound as if it is working for him. I work as a tutor for our LEA and pupils like your DS1 get 5 hours 1-1 tuition per week - 2 English, 2 maths, 1 science. But I think it is pretty hard to get pupils onto this scheme, I think they try other strategies first, and I don't know much about that side of it. Rather like never teaching your child to drive I think it is much easier for a non-parent to teach a not very willing pupil.

laurenamium · 07/07/2012 11:57

Just flying by to say its a manic day here, have been to see the horse and took DD so she could have a little sit on her Grin, we have 2 children's parties this afternoon so no flying will happen really today! Just the routines!

WitchyBitchy · 07/07/2012 14:03

Today I am working on a ta da list. It will be fairly huge by the end of it so skip my posts if they are likely to scare you.

ta da
Lie in
up and dressed
wash my bedding
Cooked breakfast with non-instant coffee
Discover forgot my pillow cases in wash and stick with ds' bedding
See out the people who were in the house but off to do something that means they are out all day
Survey damage to ankle from last night's training. - plasters needed, meh
wash bedding that dropped coffee on.
Swap bad house key off spare set for the good key on my spare car key set.
ironing
folding - up-to-date
recycling out
gather charity shop stuff together
Folded clothes into owners' rooms.
toilet cleaner into toilet and left to soak - this is what is needed when you don swish and swipe Blush
30mins in my room

WitchyBitchy · 07/07/2012 18:59

Today I am working on a ta da list. It will be fairly huge by the end of it so skip my posts if they are likely to scare you.

ta da
Lie in
up and dressed
wash my bedding
Cooked breakfast with non-instant coffee
Discover forgot my pillow cases in wash and stick with ds' bedding
See out the people who were in the house but off to do something that means they are out all day
Survey damage to ankle from last night's training. - plasters needed, meh
wash bedding that dropped coffee on.
Swap bad house key off spare set for the good key on my spare car key set.
ironing
folding - up-to-date
recycling out
gather charity shop stuff together
Folded clothes into owners' rooms.
toilet cleaner into toilet and left to soak - this is what is needed when you don swish and swipe Blush
30mins in my room
15min in lounge
Cut pieces for finishing small project started the other day.
Clear desk for moving sewing machine out of lounge and into office
put away cot that sis changed her mind about.
clear floor space so that desk can be sat at.
wash ds' duvet
wash sleeping bag
wash sofa blanket
Finish small project - except hand stitching.
move sewing machine
remove crafting stuff from lounge and dining room.
unload dishwasher
Clear lounge
clear bathroom
clear landing and hall

right off out. night

castlelough · 07/07/2012 20:50

Oh dear my big long message has disappeared/lost connection when I pressed 'post message' grrrrr.

Well it more or less said that I have finally got my act together. Have been procrastinating in a big way, and hadn't even been doing proper routines (never mind decluttering or cleaning Blush ) and I must say that I was actually feeling so much more energetic and positive back in May when I was flying or fluttering with the babysteps.

But somehow I just hit a bad patch, and I felt awful about the state of the place, but couldn't bring myself to get going again.
But I'm back and I'm just going to start again with babysteps and decluttering.

Hi to the new fledglings and to the more experienced flappers!

< leaves several bottles of bubbles on the bar to mark her return and by way of apology for being so useless and no support to anyone else during her absence>

BlueEyeshadow · 07/07/2012 22:33

Waves back to Castlelough - ooh, bubbles!
Gold star to Bitchy

Hope everyone has had lots of family fun! Been a bit trying here, but we've survived Grin.

There's no mission again tomorrow - it's "Renew Your Spirit Day".

Babystep 8 is more on setting up routines and a control journal.

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday. G'night.

OP posts:
swanthingafteranother · 07/07/2012 23:05

oh! quiet on here today

well, I have done precisely nothing housewise, okay I tried to put into some of family therapist suggestions whilst tidying dds room Smile

but I have driven to a concert (conquering driving phobias) with ds1 and listened to Mussorsky played by teenagers, and driven back in dark and rain - kept thinking I was going to jump in a taxi and leave car till tomorrow, but luckily didn't...
am: music school, early start
piano practice with dd, duets with dd
violin practice dd - sorted out an emotional lesson with her teacher too, she wants to give up but teacher won't let her
lots of walking, kept to diet too.

Body Clutter squared, had a family meeting with ds1, and tried to get him to discuss the new eating/exercise plan, which actually was fine. And weighed him and decided he was going to lost a pound a week, which he said he wanted to... Had a fight with him over buying running shoes though, he refused to come with me. He later said I should have just said, lets go and buy a football teeshirt, and he would have happily tagged along...

Lots of aggro with dh who is completely fed up with everything atm, but absolutely hates "strategies"...

castlelough no need to worry about us, we just paddle along in our dinghies Blush Sorry to hear you have had difficult time, but I'm not surprised if you are building a new house, teaching and etc, that it has been an exhausting term. I've decided that little changes are the only way to progress, even if no-one else notices them, I do.

Bitchy hope ankle alright, and enjoy all the sewing.

laurenamium · 08/07/2012 09:18

Morning! My house is descending into chaos so got a few jobs to do to get it ready for work tomorrow!

To do:
Put pots away and shine sink
Clean hob
Kitchen hotspot
Laundry- and away
Routines
Clean kitchen window
Front room hotspot
Hotspot in my room
Put away monitors from DD room
Wash kitchen floor
Wash towels and Bathmats
Online food shop
Walk dog
See horse
Start shred again
paperwork!
Order accounts book

Body clutter: this week has been terrible and it seems I've put on anything I lost in the last few weeks. Sad back to it from today though. I only update mfp with losses so I would imagine that will be staying the same for a while Angry

BBL

swanthingafteranother · 08/07/2012 11:04

mumsnet seemed to be malfunctioning earlier, as I couldn't post anything

Bodyclutter I'm at a slightly variable 76.5 first thing in the morning before I had breakfast weight! I think a bit of cheese last night after concert tipped me into variability Blush worse weight seems to be nearer 77.0, so I've still lost something. Very pleased at way things are going, couldn't care less about chocolate now. Do still crave savoury fatty things though!

Everyone has gone to church; I'm meant to be making sense of the maelstrom, also making lunch.

done
s & s upstairs loo, floor around loo
put a load of washing in
dancing with kids
weighed ds1 to show him he's gone down already Shock
no screens this morning, but we were woken very early, but I think dh in slightly better mood not dealing with zombie children (effect of screens is zombie bad tempered kids first thing) Anyway at least everyone was talking this morning Grin

better crack on
todo
kitchen and lunch
put away clean clothes
make ironing pile
paper recycling
hoover playroom

that's enough for now I think as they are back at 12, help!

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 08/07/2012 13:13

Back from camping about an hour and a half ago. Was great fun, although very muddy, but the tent kept us all dry. Although it rained virtually all weekend it was fairly light rain and we managed with umbrellas and wellies/crocs so no wet stuff brought inside the tent, just everything is slightly damp. Luckily it's warm and sunny now, so getting everything dry in no time. Men are ensconced in front of F1. I am having a quick break.

BAck to catch up later. Oh, eaten junk all weekend Blush

sanguinechompa · 08/07/2012 14:27

[collapses in naughty corner with Whoknows/gulps down Castlelough's bubbles]

Worst bit first: I am signing in today at 79 kilos which I am rather shocked but relieved about in the circs. Although it's just over the 78.8 I was at end of June, I've managed to lose 0.8 of a kilo this week even though I seemingly spent the week making home made cakes and pizza and scoffing them all, not tracking much on MFP, not trying to diet, and not exercising. Can't believe it!! Totally confused now actually Confused. I spose a kilo here or there is too small an amount to make any great judgements about althoguh didn't really drink last week and was fairly busy (in terms of being on my feet).

[Boring inner dialogue alert]
Anyway, need to decide once and for all whether I am going to commit to this weight loss thing properly. Had huge wobbles during last fortnight. On the one hand, it's the holidays and I have a huge urge just to say "sod it, it's the holidays, I can't give a Nesbit" and on the other hand, I know from experience that losing weight in the summer is much easier in many ways than if I wait until September/October when the weather starts getting colder/darker and your body is getting ready to store fat for winter etc. Although it's more effort exercising/eating correctly with dd around, there is also an abundance of salads and veg available atm, I've got loads more time (in some ways) to cook and plan and I should be setting dd a good example with exercise anyway.

All I'd say to everyone is get prepared re: Body Clutter BEFORE the holidays start and don't be taken "unawares" like me! (Although I should have been prepared of course - no excuses)

Anyway, hope everyone is OK. Wedding was lovely yesterday- bride truly radiant in elegant, classical dress and DD thrilled with it all (her first wedding that she was old enough to remember.) Beautiful music too. That took up whole day really.

Not much Flying to report. Boudoir has descended in to chaos again post wedding flurry!! Want to try and finish it by end of week as it's my cleaner's last session on Friday before she goes away for a month or so. Must catch up on some laundry today too.

First though I need to sort out what is becoming increasinging tangle of holiday arrangements. It's always like this every year: we are late making plans or prevented from setting them in stone owing to dh and office and then everyone piles in and starts making our plans for us.

This is going to sound really selfish but so far we are expected to coordinate with one sister who is single and so is (understandably) always looking out for holiday companions, dd's godfather who (v kindly) wants us to travel to his home country and introduce us to his family, my lovely nephew who is sixteen and wants to come over here to practice his french, my cousin who I'm close to, and who is passing through on her way to a holiday in France (and her four dc want to practice their French too) my in-laws who we really must go and see, and my other sister in UK who is great, very understanding and really flexible but only has a small amount of time off.

We want to try and accommodate everyone but it's not really going to be possible given the limited amount of time that dh has off and the constraints of the office. Everyone is ringing me up looking for set answers saying "I need to book flights/holiday cottages as early as poss" and I know it's ridiculous but I feel like crying. I think it's because I would just love a bit of "free" time for just the three of us to be together away from the constraints of the office. Oh dear... I'm whinging again aren't I? Grin

And I feel guilty

[shuffles off with office planner, holiday chart, slide rule and bottle of gin]

Ooh but meant to say,

Swan you have done really brilliantly with the weight loss - well done you!!!!

lauren I was in your position last week regarding weight loss and haven't done much better this week either, so I know how demoralising it is to put it back on having put the effort in previously. I guess we both need to look at this as a marathon, not a sprint, and as long as weight is declining in long-term over-view then we will be OK!!

Castlelough ditto re Flying. I have massive spurts and retreats ... I'm not much good at consistency ... but we can only try again ....

[Looks away from WitchyBitchy's long scary lists]

Waves to Honu Blue Feetheart Ellie Toffee OFM and a warm welcome to Angelico

Mahoosive wing flaps to eveyrone I've missed too!!

sanguinechompa · 08/07/2012 14:28

Thinking about it Whoknows I think you are entitled to collapse a bit after a camping holiday - so not sure you should be in the naughty corner at all!

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 08/07/2012 14:30

You haven't seen the state of my house SC.....

sanguinechompa · 08/07/2012 16:38

Grin Whoknows can't possibly be as bad as mine ...!!

DD on yesterday's wedding

"When I get married, I am going to ride a horse up the aisle, would that be allowed?"

Me (joking):

"as long as you have someone prepared to follow you with a bucket and spade"

DD (not joking):

"that of course would be you Mummy"

Grin
sanguinechompa · 08/07/2012 16:39

Rain break in Federer v Murray match.

Drinking too much Wine hic

DD and I in pjs again [hic]

LetThereBeCupcakes · 08/07/2012 17:21

Hello - can I join you please?

I'm trying to fly, I really am. I have a Control Journal and everything. It's bright pink, and has all the right bits of paper in it, but I've never actually used it.

I have cleaned the kitchen today. The WHOLE kitchen. And decluttered a cupboard. I am rather proud of myself (and a little concerned about the number of candles I have stashed...).

I'm going to do a meal plan for the week, I think, so that we can actually eat meals rather than odd combinations of leftovers.

Makingchanges · 08/07/2012 17:56

Guys...will you please have me back. I know I have been MIA for months but real life just got in the way. Today however I realised how much and for the first time was truly embarrassed when my mum came round at the state of the house. I must do something. I finish work in two weeks and although there is nothing on the horizon that at least means that I can completely concentrate on decluttering and cleaning the house.

May I return?? Smile

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 08/07/2012 18:00

Of course you can MC, lovely to have you back! Welcome to Lettherebecupcakes too, the more the merrier.

Well the camping stuff is all just about put away, watching the tennis, not sure who I want to win, can't stand Murray but he is British, whereas Federer is my favourite generally.

laurenamium · 08/07/2012 18:43

Hi all! Lists first...

To do;
wash pots and put away
Clean hob
kitchen hotspot
laundry and away- mine away DDs folded
Routines- ongoing
front room hotspot
Hotspot my room
put away monitors from DD room
Wash bathroom towel and Bathmats- about to do now
Wash kitchen floor
Online food shop- in a minute
walk dog
see horse
Start shred again...errm Blush
Paperwork!
Order accounts book

Also popped to my mums, she had bought me some clothes I actually like Hmm

laurenamium · 08/07/2012 18:44

Lots of faces in that post! Sorry Grin

castlelough · 08/07/2012 19:31

Thanks for the kind welcome back  . Hi to Makingchanges and Cupcakes, welcome!
Going well today...........

Ta Da:
Morning routine
Mass
Called to see dMil
Several loads of laundry into WM and TD/clotheshorse
Large box (from moving house last year) unpacked/decluttered
Document filing cabinet purged
Dinner (lasagna)

To Do:
Iron duvet cover/pillow cases for guest room (parents coming to stay next week)
Dress the bed
Send two important emails
Rehome the clothes horse (currently residing in guest room)
Menu plan & shopping list for the week to ensure can feed parents!
15 minute declutter in bathroom
S&S and bathroom floors
Relieve dh at work for an hour so that he can eat dinner
Feed the horses (gosh almost forgot that one ? very important! Blush )
BB Routine
Shred (ooh almost forgot this one too [blush )

Swan well done on the driving! That is a big step ? driving at night. Good for you! Love hearing how much you are practising piano. What are you working on now? I got honours in my Grade 3 so am thrilled with that. I?d love to get playing something new over the summer. Would you recommend something for me to get stuck into? Sorry to hear things are a bit tough with the family atm ? hope the holidays helps everyone to unwind a little! I think you are right about the little changes. Well done on all the exercise you?ve been getting! 
SC - my head was spinning at your summer holiday schedule. Wow! Well done on the weight-loss. Had to giggle at the image of you following dd down the aisle with a bucket and spade! I think you should find a horse riding centre and add that to your activities over the summer. Both you and dd would love it and it would help with the body clutter! Don?t feel guilty about wanting some time to yourself with your family. You may just have to be assertive. I?ve told people I?m free for visitors in July, but not in August (though I technically have no plans as yet....!)

Waves to Blue, Lauren , WhoKnows and anyone else I?ve missed today.

castlelough · 08/07/2012 19:34

Ooh puppy shopping Lauren I'm very Envy - enjoy!

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