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December's Fledgling Flyers: Christmas time, swish and swipe and wine, flyers sing to the fat fairy rhyme.

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elliepac · 30/11/2010 19:34

Welcome to the December Fledgling Flying thread.

From the 1st of the month we shall be decluttering and taming the chaos using baby steps, missions and zones. A great big thank you to DEM/DID who looked after us last month and did a fantabulous job

We are not strict followers of the fat fairy and take some of the babysteps wearing shoes indoors with a pinch of salt. Also advise against signing up for the fairy's emails.

All are welcome, jump on board for one of our three methods of chaos attack:

  1. Baby steps
  2. Baby steps and 15mins decluttering in current zone
  3. Re-inforce the baby steps and daily mission

This month the fat fairy is gearing up for the feastive period. So I shall also post the christmas mission for those who wish are brave enough to look.

In here the motto is:

*"No perfection! Do what you can, but be realistic about what you can do."

Happy flying.

OP posts:
pushmepullyou · 14/12/2010 12:00

Morning everyone!

Sorry for the sudden absence last week, spent most of it snowed in at various German airports. I would not recommend the corridors of Munich airport as a good place to spend the night when 27 weeks pregnant!

Consequently i am hugely behind with both flying and Christmas Blush. not to mention paid work!

Will be back later to catchup with the thread and try and get myself kick started, but just wanted to say hello Smile

swanriver · 14/12/2010 12:46

Builder has gone! Hall is looking very light now with new light, and all the dust is very obvious Xmas Hmm

Right Tuesday list
scrub hall, mirror, shelf, tops of pictures
scrub cooker, tiles and saucepan area

go to stationery shop and buy padded envelopes!

clean out fridge, and eat the last bt of soup
boil potaotes and mash for supper, fry sausages now to reheat

Book MOT

Wednesday will be time to clean my bedroom and wrap the presents there at same time

Dartsonwednesdays · 14/12/2010 13:05

Good afternoon all,

I have momentarily sneaked onto MN and have about a minute to type before I plough back into work again.

Not much card writing done yesterday, but it's set up to do tonight.....However, the cake got fed! (I have the priorities right?)

This morning:
Morning routine
Shower before work

At work:
My god, you don't want to know; the list would kill you........and with the boss away for a month and my assistant off sick, you can double the list Shock Shock

after work:
cook dinner
evening routine
extra reading with dcs
more christmas cards to write
check prezzie list and work out what's left to get.
And last but not least, sneak a look at the prezzie my DP got me (he got it right!!!!!!Chanel No 5, my fave) Grin

Back later, I hope!

Stillconfounded · 14/12/2010 13:49

Hi all. Just back from gynaecologist's and snaffling a late sandwich at my desk and though I'd pop in to see what everyone is up to.

Sorry you are having such a hard time at work Darts. It's sod's law isn't it? The office always explodes when things are doubly busy at home. You sneaked-peaked your present from dh Shock. How thoroughly sensible scurrilous of you!! Grin

Good luck with the dust Swan cleaning up after builders is the pits.

Oh noooo!! Pushme How awful for you!! That would be exhausting at the best of times, never mind in late pregnancy. I hope you are ok and can rest up a bit this week.

Good luck with your lists Deck Feetheart Namechange and MrsDingDong (hope you ds feels better soon and that you manage to catch up on some sleep)

Good luck with OC tonight Ellie and more power to your elbow and all that

Linzer sorry to hear that your ds is poorly and that you didn't get any answers from ENT this morning. How frustrating for you.

A very warm welcome to Architien. Don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions.

Mum2Blaire I have a cj and I find it useful. It contains my list of routines, list of jobs that I do weekly, monthly, quarterly, every six months and annually (not that I always do them but they are listed Grin). Also meal planning details + on-line food shopping details and emergency numbers of doctors, vets, gas, plumber etc etc. It also includes routines for looking after guinea pigs and looking after/locking up house. As you say, those sorts of details are very useful to hand over to a house sitter when you are away or in the event of an emergency (such as burst pipe or some such). It also contains useful bits of info such as laundry symbols and stain removing tips and stuff like that. I would tell you more but I actually can't find mine at the moment because I'm chronically untidy it tends to move around the house Blush. I'll let you know if there's anything I've missed out once I can put my hand on it!

Toffee Feel a bit Confused about it tbh (as an RC I'm not supposed to believe in ghosts) but I definitely have 'seen' and 'felt' him or 'something'! He's a young lad - slightly older than adolescent I think, thinnish with long legs and floppy hair - and he was sitting on the floor casually reading a book in a storage room at the end of a corridor - one leg bent up. He just calmly looked up at me as I dashed past (into dd's room at night - she was crying in her sleep) and he then calmly looked down again at his book. I barely registered him as it was happening (I was focused on dd) then freaked out 30 seconds later as I had to go back past the same place (which I did - firmly looking the other way). Got back downstairs and thought "oh no, I've left my daughter on the same floor as some strange "presence" and forced myself - gritted teeth - back up the stairs. Nothing to be seen of course. I haven't actually 'seen' much of him again - just a dark amorphous 'form' in the kitchen in the middle of one night but I have definitely 'felt' him. You know how you know when someone comes in to the room behind you even though you can't see them. It's that kind of feeling. I don't think he's particularly harmful - I'm perfectly happy sleeping here by myself when dh is away - but dd comes down in to our room and sleeps on a "put-you-up" bed on those occasions now! He's not here all the time either. He comes and goes. The house is old, large and creaky and the previous owner (whose family had lived here since 1910) sheltered RAF fighter pilots here in the roof during the war (even though there was an SS station 300 metres up the road). I've often wondered if "he" is connected to that and have been meaning to do some research - ask the Imperial War museum or some'at.

OK - now you will all think I am completely mad - or drunk ...[takes another swig of Darts brandy]

Mahooosive waves to everyone else! [Hope you are still r&r-ing PA - well as much as poss at this time of year]

DeckTheIceWithDragonsAndHolly · 14/12/2010 13:55

Maybe he in death is looking after the people who occupy the house where he was looked after in life? Sounds lovely. The fact that he was just there reading is kinda lovely. He seems at peace.

I dont want to believe in ghosts because i have an overactive imagination and likely to scare the begibers out of myself Blush

swanriver · 14/12/2010 14:02

SC my parents had a house where there was a very angry ghost who had committed suicide from previous family. He used to rattle trays (butler) at people who didn't even know there was a ghost Shock
I've since thought that all the accidents we've ever had in that house (which btw was and is a very happy house full of visitors etc) was caused by various unhappy events which happened in past there, and malign orjust sad misunderstood prescences.

That film called The Others always seems very sensible to me..not that it's that good Blush Nicole is at her most irritating.

SC not the builder who made the dust - ME! Don't want the ghost of poor builder to haunt me!

Darts Push glad about lovely Chanel, sorry about horrid German airports...

swanriver · 14/12/2010 14:05

In fact it makes me feel quite creepy just thinking about layers of simultaneously prescences which can co-exist in one place, think archaoleogical layers if you must. I find it strange to think of the Edwardians walking around in this house opening and shutting the very same doors and ringing the same doorknocker 100years ago.

off to dust doorknocker Blush

namechange100 · 14/12/2010 14:08

I am on my break:

W/D done
Breakfast & Dishes done
School Run done

Faffing about for an hour online done

Laundry no1 in done
Laundry no2 in
Laundry no3 in
Deep clean main bathroon
Tidy hideous piles of jumble in master bedroom - this is huge, massive why is every freakin piece of clothing displaced winter/summer/gym/charity/doesnt fit?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? I only did the big shake down in the summer and THOUGHT I had done a thourough job took me two months, I now have four black bags and havn't even got the room anywhere near straight - well acutally the large cupboard is tidy and I did discover some stuff we needed like a stash of toiletires and Christmas stockings - well if all elses fails we have eight tubes of toothpaste to eat for xmas dinner arrrrggggghhhhhhh.
And I have promised DH a lamb dinner with everything and loo at how much I have still to do.

Washing - simple we should all grow back our body hair and not have to wear them Grin Ive lost it.

QUESTION - Donate to charity or Ebay my very nice party dresses that I dont want anymore? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Make up DS bed
Make up Master bed
Tidy toys in DS room
Dust and Hoover DS Room
Dust and Hoover Master Room
Pay gas
Ring Water
Check Bank accounts

Work job1
Work job2
Work job3
Trip tp Asda
Big work job 4.....

Stillconfounded · 14/12/2010 14:21

Swan thanks - you've made me feel less barking!! [I rather like the "feel" of the continuity of generations having lived in the house - but I do know what you mean!! Not sure I like the sound of your parents ghost though!]

Deck what a lovely thought! I'm the same as you - I do not want to believe either!!

Namechange you are doing really well with the decluttering. Don't give up! There's always a horrid bit when it looks worse than when you started ... but it will all come right in the end.

swanriver · 14/12/2010 14:26

dusting/flash cleaning of woodwork done
front door cleaned!
hall floor mopped swept

swanriver · 14/12/2010 14:54

ordered dh's present (books)
ordered db present and got it sent off giftwrapped Grinfrom bookshop
ordered ddad's present (book)

made salt dough for family craft Xmas Hmm keep them away from screens for a little longer
also put out some coloured felt but don't hold out much hope Wink

LinzerChristkindlmarkt · 14/12/2010 14:57

That's literally quite spooky, SC - although it does sound like a very benevolent spirit. And if you have to have a ghost, one who sits reading is probably one of the better kinds to have! I am quite open-minded about that sort of thing and tend to scare myself silly by reading ghost story threads when DH is away. It's at times like those that I'm very glad we bought a new house that no one had lived in before!

namechange I usually hang onto things for months on end before deciding I can't be bothered to eBay them after all and passing them onto charity. It depends how much you might make from them, of course; I think my greatest ever profit was 3 euros and it really didn't seem to be worth the effort!

Am feeling very unfocused (and also a bit shivery, which I'm hoping is due to the cold rather than anything else) so need to update my list:

List:
Get parcel ready to send done
Finish letter about halfway there
Write more Christmas cards two more done
Afternoon routine
Room rescues in hall and living room
Finish book
Find Christmas recipes
Sort out travel insurance

swanriver · 14/12/2010 15:00

SC I think he was just shouty butler not actually bad ifysim...Smile the ones who don't show themselves are probably worse...

swanriver · 14/12/2010 15:02

decluttered some more things into bin!

pushmepullyou · 14/12/2010 15:34

Still haven't caught up, but thanks for the sympathy SC and swan Smile. I manage not to feel too sorry for myself at the time, but I had no sleep whatsoever for 45 hours and am still struggling to get myself together now.

I've come home early from work to look after DD as we're having childcare issues this week. Hoping to post a quick christmas list before she notices what I'm doing!

Stillconfounded · 14/12/2010 15:39

Swan Am wondering now if one could train butler ghost to bring hot cups of tea on demand ...

You are Flying high today - well done!!!

Linzer oh no - I didn't know there are ghost threads on here ....I'm a sucker for punishment too -

Hope you are not going down with anything ...fresh pineapple (or just pineapple juice) is great for heading off colds

Namechange Like Linzer, I have the best of intentions re e-baying or selling my old clothes ( did manage to flog children's clothes at church sale in October) but they usually just hang around until I admit defeat and take them off to charity.

swanriver · 14/12/2010 18:25

Maybe he was waiting in vain for someone to ring the bell! Arf
RING RING RING Grin

oh,no cup of tea forthcoming, will have to make it myself Xmas Angry stomps off to find a more helpful ghost

Dartsonwednesdays · 14/12/2010 20:13

SC, it's a big cake, needs lots of brandy (plenty to go around) Have some? Xmas Grin

I have managed to complete a list today! Despite feeling rough from the stress of work. I have, however, had some very murderous feelings about the UK Border Agency; they returned a visa form because it was an out of date version - the latest one was only posted to their website a few days ago.....Grrrrrrr! Xmas Angry

anyway, in addition to list we managed:
Visit to Santa
new small fibre optic tree for 2nd room (main tree actually goes in Kitchen, but you'd have to see our house to see why).
decs for ds's new little tree in his room (dd's got one already).
KFC! Xmas Grin

Dartsonwednesdays · 14/12/2010 20:18

Sorry, clicked return before I finished...

Hello to PA, Ellie, Linzer, Deck, Swan, et al

Actually just realised I haven't quite finished the cards, off to finish and then go for very early night (ds is a sleepwalker and got me up a couple of times last night.)

Did manage to crack the worst of the hassle at work, and have created a list to cover tomorrw and Friday morning, which will be the last times I'm in until Jan 5th. Yay! Xmas Grin

NettiesElfnPie · 14/12/2010 22:00

hello everyone, lovely to read all about it all 7 Xmas Shock Xmas Shock pages of it since i last lurked.

on a huge plus side for me in my absence i have:-
deep cleaned living room
got christmas decrations up.
dd moved upstairs to her new room.
junk not going anywhere soon in the now spare room with all the christmas shopping
finished my christmas shopping wahey!
cleaned all upvc (that i could get to) in conservatory.
got rid of 5 bags of stuff, Xmas Shock
one bag full of childrens clothes hangers as dh was flipping out that each one would have had a piece of clothing attached to it Xmas Grin
changed our bedding at long last phew.

im going to bed and pop back in tomorrow with my list, need some focus now or ill get complaicent and think im sorted Xmas Wink

hope to catch up properly tomorrow. had withdrawal symptoms from you lasses Xmas Grin

MrsDingDongMerrily · 14/12/2010 22:08

Evening all,

Well, got most of my jobs done, including an hour and a half snuggled up in bed with DS watching a DVD this morning, lovely. I suspect he will be at home again tomorrow. He has been OK today but a bit delicate and clingy, just a really bad cold plus end of term exhaustion. Meanwhile DD seems to have an inexhaustible supply of energy, despite this being her first term at school.

Something funny happened just now. DH lost his phone in the snow two weeks ago, we had given up any hope of finding it, then got a call tonight from a person saying their husband had found it in a last melting bit of snowman on the local green, turned out it was our neighbour. Phone is dead, but at least he got his SIM card back with all the numbers on.

I can't keep up with all the chat at the moment, so sorry not to be making individual mentions, but am again struggling to stay awake.

Oh, OK, just one thing SC - I am inspired by the description of your control journal, I have a random selection of bit of paper with useful information on them all over the place, I am going to get on with the CJ. Sometime. Soon. Maybe after Christmas!

LinzerChristkindlmarkt · 15/12/2010 08:13

I'm well over an hour late getting started this morning thanks to 50 minutes spent shovelling snow and the computer playing up (am writing this on my laptop while I wait for the computer to restart so I can finally start work). Serious flying and Christmas preparations have had to be abandoned as I have a translation to finish by Friday.

Quick list for this morning:
Work
Morning routine
Write more Christmas cards
Order one last Christmas present

SC I usually come across the ghost threads when DH is away and have to ban myself from reading them in the evening! Thanks for the tip re pineapples; I'm managing to stave off the cold with echinacea atm but must get some pineapple juice for next time (echinacea doesn't work as well for me as it used to).

No time for any more personal messages as I really must start work, but waves to all. Xmas Smile

elliepac · 15/12/2010 08:55

MOrning all,

Busy, busy busy last night with BF's DD's party and various other work related stuff so didn't get on.

Today's babystep is make your bed. I like doing this one because even if the room is a pigsty it just looks better with a bed that is made.

The mission for today is here.

Have a good day everyone!

OP posts:
swanriver · 15/12/2010 09:37

WEDNESDAYlist
tidy bedroom thoroughly!
try sending some outlier xmas cards Xmas Hmm
I have three people in mind...

hoover playroom (yesterday's list)

oh yes and RECYCLING better do that now Sad
done
rubbish out and bins cleaned out
lego made by ds2 Xmas Smile
dcs to school despite dd refusing to get ready and having tantrum Xmas Sad
breakfast cleared
table wiped
hall stuff put back in right boxes

tea or coffee and then upstairs

U2 and Glee first thing cheered me up too! Otherwise I feel a bit grey and tense Blush

DeckTheIceWithDragonsAndHolly · 15/12/2010 09:48

Morning.

I am about to start cleaning carpets.Biscuit

I have already spent 20mins applying the high traffic treatment that is only supposed to be left on for about 10mins. The fumes are horrific so the heating has been turned off and the windows are open.

Can you tell this is a job i have been looking forward to?Hmm