It's all gone utterly pear-shaped at ds's school so I've decided to HE. Just can't continue doing this to him, it's cruel.
Julienoshoes - you seem to be a bit of a HE guru here so I hope you won't mind if I pick your brains (and other enlightened souls) till I get my act together.
If anyone is interested, I've posted this: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs/625069-life-changing-decision in Special Needs about the school situation.
I feel all excited now, wish me luck!!