We have been deschooling for 4 weeks now, including half term with my older son here too.
I have noticed that the emphasis of my life has altered to finding out about things I want to find out about. House work and calling the vet has been something I do inbetween times.
So I'm sort of leading by example, enjoying finding out about home education plus reading loads of books from the library, doing maths workbooks (I chose them I can use them!), using the brain training we got for my secondary schooled first son....
I don't do so much of the I've got to get you to do x now, less pressurising. So I like me more.