I was surprised there wasn't a register as I could have done with some help to begin with
There's no connection between help and a register.
We had nothing to hide though,so would have welcomed this.
Ha. You have no idea how many trusting, diligent parents have said the same, only to find that it doesn't matter how good a job you are doing if the premise is you should not be doing it and the agenda is to find some evidence of fault, any fault.