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BFing in public in US - is it ok? DD is 6 mo, Will I get snotty looks?

9 replies

titferbrains · 28/02/2009 18:07

Heading to US on mon. Are people very uptight about bfing? I just whip 'em out here, can't think who HASN'T seen my boobs, but not sure how it will be taken over there. Yr experience? in malls, restaurants etc?

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ilovemydogandMrObama · 28/02/2009 18:10

I visit family in California and have done it in public. People (women) tend to carry blankets and use them as a throw thing.

EldonAve · 28/02/2009 18:18

Never had any issues myself on the East Coast - malls, shops, airports, churches, restaurants etc

Didn't do anything with blankets or see anyone else using them either

Maybe in Cali it's to stop sunburn?

ScummyMummy · 28/02/2009 18:24

Probably depends where exactly in the US? Bit like here- might not go down well with bigots on the Isle of Mann (though I'm sure there are lots of non-bigots who would applaud too) but wouldn't really raise an eyebrow in a cosmopolitan city centre museum cafe.

scienceteacher · 01/03/2009 17:20

You shouldn't have a problem. I have breastfed in all sorts of places in the US and never had a problem. I think a lot of mothers perceive there to be a problem so they have all sorts of tent contraptions and nursing tops - but really, you don't need anything like that. Just lift up your shirt and let the baby hide everything.

happytraveller · 31/03/2009 18:30

I currently live in the USA, I've had 4 children here and as the PP said, it's getting better. You will probably feel more comfortable though if you have a light blanket or something to throw over yourself while breastfeeding (which is almost always referred to here as "nursing" - for some reason they just do not seem to like saying the word "breast", shock horror eh?)

CarmenSanDiego · 31/03/2009 18:34

depends where you are. I live in California and you have a legal right to breastfeed anywhere. I had one security guard look at me funny in a mall but generally nobody bats an eyelid. If you're visiting the south, you /may/ find people a bit funny about it but generally in cities you should be fine.

CarmenSanDiego · 31/03/2009 18:36

oops just noticed this is an old thread. Guess she's been and gone now!

scienceteacher · 31/03/2009 18:43

I didn't have any problems BFIP when I lived in Ohio. I BF in restaurants, malls, etc.

A few raised eyebrows at tandem nursing, but I suppose that is reasonable enough.

Don't buy yourself a tent contraption - BF and be proud!

scienceteacher · 31/03/2009 18:44

lol, just noticed my earlier post - at least I didn't contradict myself!

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