..it does my head in. Big bag for whole family or two seperate bags? must remember those warm trousers of dds that are still drying on the radiator...why did washing their slippers seems like a good idea...just packed hats and gloves but they'll need them when we get there..does dd2 still need a mode of transport...how many marmite fingers should I make for a day long journey...seperate packed lunch each or pack food by type...crayons in my bag or should they have their own bags...one big piece of hand lugagge for everything or seperate small handbag...do I need a decent pair of shoes, in which case should I pack them or wear them; am I likely to wear a skirt on a ski-ing holiday and if so what shoes do I need...what will be too trendy friend be taking...shall I pack swimming costumes (as I have done every year for about 12 years) knowing that I never use them...oh and what is everyone having for tea tonight...HELP