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Holidaying alone…

183 replies

SurreySideEye · 28/06/2026 12:14

I’m happily single and I’m looking to go away abroad on a simple pool/beach holiday just for some change and rest, I don’t want to be involved with the ‘singles scene’ so I’m not looking to meet a prospective partner or even have a ‘holiday fling’ nor do I want to stay in a hotel where I’ll be seated with strangers at mealtimes…basically I’d just like to holiday alone. Are there any ‘Mumsnetters’ out there who’ve done this and could offer some suggestions ?

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MinnieMountain · 28/06/2026 12:44

I've not done it yet, but after going there with our 12 YO in May, I plan to spend a week in Alghero in Sardinia next year. I'm going to stay in a holiday let in the old town (small, lots of restaurants of a variety of prices) and most days I'll rent a lounger at the beach bar on the lido that DS and I liked. You can pre-book them. I noticed the same woman there alone at least days.

BerylThePeril44 · 28/06/2026 13:00

Menorca is lovely. Very relaxed, friendly and easy going. Avoid the family resorts. I recently holidayed in the Es Castell area - 10 min drive from Mahon/Airport. Adult only hotel overlooking the estuary. I remember thinking at the time, this would be a perfect place to have a lovely holiday alone…

Bjorkdidit · 28/06/2026 13:28

I went to Playa Blanca in Lanzarote by myself and just stayed in a normal hotel (the White Suites if you're interested)

You just sit at your own table for meals, I'm not sure why you think they make you share a table?

Bjorkdidit · 28/06/2026 13:30

BerylThePeril44 · 28/06/2026 13:00

Menorca is lovely. Very relaxed, friendly and easy going. Avoid the family resorts. I recently holidayed in the Es Castell area - 10 min drive from Mahon/Airport. Adult only hotel overlooking the estuary. I remember thinking at the time, this would be a perfect place to have a lovely holiday alone…

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Can you swim in the sea at Es Castell? Ive been looking on Google earth and it seems to be more 'marina' than beach.

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

IAMFLUFF · 28/06/2026 13:35

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

Well you do you!

Marwoodsbigbreak · 28/06/2026 13:39

I do it regularly. There are always plenty of other singles and I have never been sat with other people.

I have a great time, just doing what I want without having to compromise.

MummyInTheNecropolis · 28/06/2026 13:44

I’m doing it this year for the first time! I’m off to furteventura for 5 days, I’ve booked an adults only hotel with a spa and a gym. I plan to spend my mornings working out/walking around town/at the beach and my afternoons reading by the pool and swimming. Plus a few spa treatments thrown in. I can’t bloody wait!

EBearhug · 28/06/2026 13:47

I haven't done a beach holiday aline (though I often do a day at the beach alone here.) But I've done lots of city breaks alone. I do like a good museum or art gallery without interruption.

DrRylandGrace · 28/06/2026 13:52

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

Why?

DidntLikeTheEnding · 28/06/2026 13:53

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

It's awesome, maybe you should give it a try!

Anyway, watching with interest as I've done many city breaks alone but would love to go on a more relaxing holiday.

Rainbowcat77 · 28/06/2026 13:54

Yes I did this last year and had a brilliant time!!
my only real tip is “go for it” nobody else will bat an eyelid.
possible other tips:
take a good book with you
be prepared with a friendly way to say “thanks but no thanks” when well meaning people try to adopt you.
go adults only because I find in family reports, single travellers can get a bit pushed to the side EG expected to get up and move if a big family comes into the restaurant.

I love travelling alone though, nobody to answer to but yourself.

snowymarbles · 28/06/2026 13:55

not sure on your age but there is a fb group called solo women in style 50+ (or similar) full of great advice on solo holidays and ideas

snowymarbles · 28/06/2026 13:57

I did a solo city break to Poland for 3 nights and I am currently planning 2.5 weeks solo in Vietnam in 18 months time. Bit nervous on that one but everyone seems to give positive feedback on Vietnam as an easy place for a solo traveller

OctopusSting · 28/06/2026 13:57

I’d go on a cruise!

Chestecoffthatcarriedheroff · 28/06/2026 14:04

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

Why not?

Vulcanvolcano · 28/06/2026 14:07

I've travelled alone loads. If you want more detailed advice, can you be more specific about what sort of holiday are you after. You say 'simple pool/beach' holiday but that can cover anything from "all inclusive/never leave a large restort hotel" to "nice hotel in a location with a bit to do in terms of history and local restaurants'. If you literally don't want to leave your hotel then you will get different recommendations as to wanting a bit to do out of the hotel.

Some to things to think about are

Location and culture. Long /medium/short haul? (assuming you are in the UK) Some places are very easy to travel as a woman alone others are more challenging. I'd avoid Morocco for a first trip alone as there is a lot of pestering. Some Caribbean islands/hotels can be a bit full on set up for couples which can be a bore if you are alone. That said, a friend did the body holiday in St Lucia and raved about it. The USA is fantastic for women travelling alone as culturally they are very welcoming and chatty if that's what you want but equally will leave you alone if you aren't.

Hotel. I don't like all-inclusive as I like trying out local cuisine and restaurants but some people love them as they don't want to move. Large chain hotels (thinking of Hilton, Hyatt, Marriot types) tend to have lots of business travelers so being alone woman is easy and not a big deal. Resort hotels can be purely set up for families and this can be less fun if you are a lone woman but depends on what you like to do. I like to have a glass of wine in the bar whilst I read a book but I enjoy an atmosphere and a bit of people watching. Some family type resorts the bar can be absolutely dead in the evening as the families have all done an early bird dinner.

Timing When are you thinking of going? Now? A major advantage of traveling alone is you can go anytime. shoulder seasons for your chosen location are usually great because it's cheaper, no families as outside school holidays and tend to be quieter which makes for a relaxing holiday.

What's your budget?

PS: LOL at the unhelpful person who said they couldn't even go to a restaurant alone. What is the point of posting that? The OP was asking for advice not for your to waste their time with your own fears and weaknesses!

Rainbowcat77 · 28/06/2026 14:11

OctopusSting · 28/06/2026 13:57

I’d go on a cruise!

I love cruises but they do try to make you sit at a singles table, which Op says she doesn’t want.
you can resist though I suppose!

OctopusSting · 28/06/2026 14:12

@Rainbowcat77 I’d just say no or go to the buffet. But then I can be cantankerous when needed 😂

Idontlikeshouting · 28/06/2026 14:13

I did a week in Gran Canaria last year. I did AI rather than SC as I didn’t want to be wandering around trying to find places to eat. It was lovely - went for morning walks, afternoons by the pool or there was a lovely spa area where you could sit outside and then go into the jacuzzi/whirlpool indoors to cool down. Read 5 books, barely spoke to anyone and completely chilled. I’d definitely recommend!

ilovesooty · 28/06/2026 14:14

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

Really?

Rainbowcat77 · 28/06/2026 14:15

Ha Ha @OctopusStingme too!! On my last cruise they insisted on searing me at a large “singles” table where I ended up being completely alone with the waiters sniggering at me.
I ate at the buffet after that which suited me much better but it’s made me a bit wary.

ilovesooty · 28/06/2026 14:16

Marwoodsbigbreak · 28/06/2026 13:39

I do it regularly. There are always plenty of other singles and I have never been sat with other people.

I have a great time, just doing what I want without having to compromise.

Same here. I'm going to Crete next month and Malta later on in the year. I've been holidaying alone for years. I really wouldn't want it to be any different.

trikonasanallama · 28/06/2026 14:19

Statingtheobvious · 28/06/2026 13:33

I could never go on holiday alone, or a restaurant, or a pub.

You poor, limited thing

BIWI · 28/06/2026 14:23

I had a week on my own in Barbados a few years ago. Stayed in a hotel I'd been to before and it was AI. I went out on a couple of day trips but other than that sat by the pool and read my book. It was just what I needed after a really stressful time at work, and was amazing.

I was always sat on my own in the restaurant and nobody tried to make me join other people.

Go for it @SurreySideEye!

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