Please help! Netherlands - Marvilla kaatshevual, ter spegelt or beeke beegan?

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Have booked for 11 days in the Netherlands flying into Amsterdam sat- weds.
i cannot decide what accommodation to choose or what combination, we would love 2 days at Eftling and would consider a Eftling hotel 1 night to allow to full days in the park. Then after that consider beeke bergan( a forest cabin) , ter spegelt or the nearby to Eftling marvilla camping Kaatsheuvel. Can only fit in two of these options on top of the Eftling night. Anyone stay at either of these can could give me some advice? Have a 8yr old and 5 yr old and want a mix of of activities that includes good water activities. Beeke bergan seems massive and I worry 4 days here might seem rushed and stressful to fit as much in? We would be arriving the evening of the first day as would be coming from Eftling so technically missing the first day so 4 nights 4 full days. From there we could go to ter spegelt for 5 nights?

first trip to Netherlands and so many great parks I’m struggling!!

We had a week at Ter Spelgt a couple of years ago, with dc then aged 11 and 14. They spent a lot of time in the pool! There are only 2 water slides, but that didn't seem to bother them, There are also 2 large lakes and one smaller one, with limited water sports on offer, but we did go very late - something like 2-9 Sept.

There were quite a few organised activities for younger kids round the site, which we saw but did not participate.

It's a nice site, with a well stocked shop and laundry as well as petting farm, pools, bmx track, mini golf etc. We mostly used it as a base to explore the wider area.

@IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads thanks so much for the reply, I have booked 10 nights in ter spegelt staying in Eurocamp accommodation. Excited now and hope we all enjoy it and can relax a little !