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How much will you spend on holidays in 2023?

145 replies

shivawn · 27/12/2022 12:27

Just starting to plan for holidays for next year!

I'm hoping to keep things under 3k for flights, accomodation and car rental for a couple weeks for a family of 3. We also have a campervan so we go for a lot of weekends away in that but any cost just comes out of our weekly spending money. Last year we had 3 holidays and spent roughly 14k, I don't feel great about it after adding it all up so I'm really looking to cut back this year!

Just curious what other people plan to spend if anyone is happy to share. Any holiday ninjas out there that manage to have amazing holidays on a budget?

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iknowwheretheothersockgoes · 27/12/2022 17:15

I do not understand posters that complain about threads on behalf of other people. People who are well off laying out their concerns on behalf of those who are less well off seems so patronising.

FatCatSkinnyRat · 27/12/2022 17:16

2023 is hopefully going to be a great travel year for us, finally. 2 adults, 2 teens and this is the year where neither of them is doing GCSE or A Level, woo hoo!

We will go to Australia for 3 weeks at Easter with a stop over in Singapore on the way, to see DHs family and stay with them. Prob 8k spend tops (flights were 5k alone - this trip was initially booked in 2020 but was obvs cancelled and I am using up those funds here).

In summer we are going on a mini break to France for friend's birthday at the end of July (4 nights, 2K tops).

In August we are going to the Arctic Circle on a once in a life time expedition for 16 days. Beside ourselves with excitement. This will be a 20K holiday, the most we have ever spent.

Then at Christmas we will be going to Germany for xmas and skiing. 10k.

Total is 40k, but since we are speaking actual amounts, we put away 1.5k a month into holiday saving.

This used to be our mortgage, but has been paid off so I just transfer the same into holiday account now. We kept doing this all through Covid, when it felt like we would never travel again. Plus the Aus money was already there from that cancelled 2020 trip. Next year won't be anywhere near as exciting with A Levels on the go - perhaps just a final hurrah in summer with DS before he hopefully goes off to uni!

I think it is interesting to have discussions about money and spending, I do often wonder how we sit in the spending arena. My DH is a MD at a bank, so he earns a lot of money in a stressful job and likes to have hols to look forward to so he knows what break is coming up next. We save a relatively small proportion of our income into the travel account I think, compared to people we know from when we were expats. My job, also stressful but much less lucrative, will be the only household income when DH retires in 3 years, so these big holiday years with the kids are numbered so we are making the most while we can.

bumpytrumpy · 27/12/2022 17:20

We spent £10k in 2022 on 2 separate weeks abroad (Europe) and a couple of UK weekends / camping. 2A & 2C.

For 2023 we're committed to about £4K for skiing so far. Not sure what else to go for, will maybe try keep it a bit lower.

bellac11 · 27/12/2022 17:26

Abeachsomewhere · 27/12/2022 15:52

Thanks for your concern but I can afford multiple holidays if I want them and we do have one planned and booked already next year. I just don’t choose to come on here (or any thread on any site) and talk about how much I spend on them. I’ve got no axe to grind as we are lucky to be comfortably off, but it makes me cringe to read about some people spending the equivalent of a house deposit on one holiday or even a year’s worth when others can’t afford to buy food for their kids. Surely the joy in talking about holidays is to discuss the trips/destinations rather than how much is spent on them? I really don’t see how it can be anything other than a stealth brag otherwise, however you like to dress it up…

Those are all your issues though

You feel cringey? Your issue

You feel someone is 'stealth bragging' (ridiculous phrase that says more about you)? Your issue

Stay off the thread if you're cringing too hard.

upfucked · 27/12/2022 17:32

Liorae · 27/12/2022 17:05

To be frank, between this thread and the media reports about the post Christmas sales, seems like "choosing between heating and eating" was just a sensationalist media soundbite. Or maybe the truth is somewhere in between.

You do realise people have very different financial situations so yes it’s perfectly possible that some people are having several holidays a year while others can’t afford to feed their children.

Blueisthecolour1 · 27/12/2022 17:39

Lol at all the orders complaining that this thread is in poor taste. Why bother opening……..& then commenting on a thread you don’t like? Also surely you understand that not everyone is living in a shoebox? If you don’t like the topic/thread employ your total right to scroll on by.

FWIW I usually spend about £2000 per annum on holidays. Two weeks in France in the summer staying with my dad & in May a holiday cottage for a week somewhere like the Lakes or Wales. We’re a family of four, two DV’s (8 & 4 yrs)

Blueisthecolour1 · 27/12/2022 17:39

Posters not orders!!

mrshenny · 27/12/2022 17:43

Roughly £0, no current holiday plans. Pregnant, exhausted and preparing myself for sleepless nights again. Honestly it's the last thing I'm thinking about. Maybe we'll book a little lodge or cottage or something in the UK possibly, but probably not.

shinynewapple22 · 27/12/2022 17:43

Will you be travelling in the school holidays @shivawn ? We would also expect to get flights, self catering accommodation and car hire for around £3k but this would be outside of school holidays.

kitcat15 · 27/12/2022 17:45

20k ….that’s about normal for us

OldTinHat · 27/12/2022 17:46

I've booked a half board coach trip, five days, four nights, two excursions - £250.

And no, I'm not 105! I'm 51!

bellac11 · 27/12/2022 17:48

OldTinHat · 27/12/2022 17:46

I've booked a half board coach trip, five days, four nights, two excursions - £250.

And no, I'm not 105! I'm 51!

This is what I actually like about threads like this, you sound llike me, sounding out the bargains and getting some time out for a really good price

MusicstillonMTV · 27/12/2022 17:49

Our approach is usually to fly somewhere warm in Europe, stay in an Airbnb near the beach and other attractions. Depending on where you go, this is usually about £500 on flights, £1000 on accommodation, £400 on activities/meals out

We do this because we prefer it - particularly getting more space and we have dietary issues and allergies that make us prefer to have the option of cooking - but it's also a lot cheaper than a resort.

OldTinHat · 27/12/2022 17:57

@bellac11 Exactly! You don't have to spend a fortune to have a holiday and a really good time.

I always took my DC on 'The Sun' holidays when they were growing up. £39 plus whatever supplements like £2 a night for entertainment or what have you. They're adults with partners now and still go on them, themselves!

I discovered the 'coach holiday' last year having not been away in a very long time. I had the BEST time and am already counting down the days to May when I'm off again. UK but somewhere I've never been and it would cost far, far more to drive, pay for fuel and hotels, meals and trips.

Sunsetintheeast · 27/12/2022 18:06

MummyDummyNow · 27/12/2022 14:41

Completely agree with @Abeachsomewhere incredibly bad taste given the current climate. People on here can't afford heating, food, Christmas...

Terrible stealth brag.

It’s not a stealth brag. It’s was a full on disclosure of what I’m spending, fuck all stealth about it.

You do realise that the COLC doesn’t impact everyone, right?

This is why I hate these threads, they just breed resentment and bad feeling. In reality lots of people are spending lots of money, but if you don’t know, it doesn’t bother you.

shivawn · 27/12/2022 18:09

shinynewapple22 · 27/12/2022 17:43

Will you be travelling in the school holidays @shivawn ? We would also expect to get flights, self catering accommodation and car hire for around £3k but this would be outside of school holidays.

Yeah it'll have to be July or August this year unfortunately because of my husband's work projects. Well we could go in January or February but we'd need to travel further for good weather and it'd probably cost more than peak time in Europe.

We still have a few years until my son starts school so we'll be able to travel off peak the following 2 years but this is just an awkward year!

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HuntingoftheSnark · 27/12/2022 18:18

Probably going to North Carolina to stay with relatives who have been asking for several years and who want the flights to be a gift. I've read this thread with interest as I could afford to go away, but haven't for several years as I don't prioritise holidays in the same way that others do. I was fixated on paying off my mortgage. I don't think it's in poor taste, any more than threads on private school fees or investments, or premium bonds are.

shinynewapple22 · 27/12/2022 18:39

We have done the school holiday years and come out the other side!

We have booked 12 days in Spain in February, a week in the Yorkshire Dales in June and a week in Sardinia in September . All self catering booked though VRBO. There is just myself and DH now - but for holidays abroad we normally book somewhere large enough for DS and his GF if they wish to join us for a few days . They pay for their own flights .

DelilahBucket · 27/12/2022 19:05

For the first time in 13 years, absolute nada unless there's a miracle around the corner. Normally booking a week in the UK for May right now and a two week European break in the summer but thanks to the cost of living and the bloody CWU strikes we can't even afford our bills for the next couple of months let alone a holiday.

Secretstory · 27/12/2022 19:11

shivawn · 27/12/2022 16:11

but next year going to Lapland at Xmas for around £5000. Been saving for ages for this and wanted children at 'right' ages.
We are a family of 5.

@Secretstory So exciting! Do you mind me asking what ages your kids are? This is something I'd love to do in the future!

Little ones will be 7 and nearly 6. School years 1 and 2 so they will still totally believe, from experice I find by juniors they are starting to ask questions. But should be able to cope with the cold or at least know to keep their gloves on!
My oldest will be 14 so won't belive in santa bit can enjoy some skiing with her Dad!

dementedma · 27/12/2022 19:12

A few days with DH in Barcelona for his 60th birthday which will be cheap flights and Air BnB.
That'll be it probably

AllIwantforChristmas22 · 27/12/2022 19:16

As much a I can afford to! Holidays are hugely important to me!
feb half term: around 1k, week in my home country staying with DM
June half term: around 3k, week in Italy, flights booked

a few long weekends in England visiting relatives etc, a weekend in Rome with friends and one long haul family trip (around 6-8k)

probabaly around 12k all in all

RichardMarxisinnocent · 27/12/2022 19:25

Probably around £250,000.

Sunsetintheeast · 27/12/2022 19:27

RichardMarxisinnocent · 27/12/2022 19:25

Probably around £250,000.

I’m never sure if this sort of comment is real (you can spend that much if you want exclusive/yacht/private island/1st class/6* etc etc)

Or sarcastic 😂

shivawn · 28/12/2022 07:54

OldTinHat · 27/12/2022 17:46

I've booked a half board coach trip, five days, four nights, two excursions - £250.

And no, I'm not 105! I'm 51!

I love this, the social side to these kind of trips really appeals to me! I hope that you get a great gang on the coach with you and make friends for life! If I didn't have a toddler I'd love to do something similar.

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