I want to go on a cruise husband does also but we don't seem to ever do anything about it

[T181]

I'm getting really fed up me and husband have spoke numerous times about going on a cruise(we did one 10 years ago for our honeymoon) he says yeah let's do it so I get my hopes up spend time to look around and then I tell him what I've found nothing longer than 7 nights and there's always something he finds any issue with or backtracks to say he didn't say about doing a cruise. Its either not possible to get the time off work, having the kids looked after 8+6 by parents, spending the money on it (of which we have savings) or something else he will think off .

He tells me many times he really enjoyed our honeymoon and wants to do another one but then he will change his mind like I say and says oh no maybe we shouldn't. He won't bloody fly either because his scared of heights even though his never flown

Aghhh im just so wound up by his constant change of minds!

[GinTonic123]

Why don’t you choose three different cruises and let him decide which one he would like to go on. If he doesn’t want to choose one, or finds fault with all of them, you could book one either for just you, or you and the kids and go without him?

[FawnFrenchieMum]

My husbands a bit like this in with holidays in general.
In the end, I just say right I’m booking this …he chills out once it’s done.