There is something very sad about a thread with more than half stating they live in countries away from their families. Why? What's so dreadful about the places your family live in, surely you all want to maintain real relationships with your families
I do want to maintain a ‘real’ relationship with my family, thanks, and they and I both feel we do.
In my case, I was here short term. I fell in love with and married a person of a different nationality to me. Clearly an utterly cardinal sin. Marrying foreigners is clearly sad and despicable.
So we had to make a choice about where to live. In his country, closer to his family who had less support and were less mobile?
We lived here on the condition that we visit my homeland around once a year. Covid has clearly blown all that to shit, but there are still no ‘easy’ outcomes for us.
So yes, it’s difficult. But not ‘sad’, and I think it’s only peculiarly insular and unimaginative minds that would look at my happy, thriving family unit and their strong relationships with their extended families on two contents (stronger with mine than with their British families, in fact) and think it ‘sad’.