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Mozhe IS NOT going back to work next week after all......

818 replies

mozhe · 16/07/2007 13:36

.....no, have decided to delay it by a week or so......Mr Mozhe is on 'incubator watching' duties....P-in-L's are manning the home front,( and DSsX3...), with nice new aupair....and Mozhe,Nanny and DTs are off to St Barts,( in lovely Carribean...),for a week's sun/swim/chill out !!
Any one been before ? Any pointers ? Off first thing tomorrow......

OP posts:
JeremyVile · 17/07/2007 11:16

Perhaps, but mockery imo does not extend to the particularly viscious attacks on this thread.

lljkk · 17/07/2007 11:16

Tristan gets listed with other "chav baby names", Oliveoil. Written on websites things like "You know Wisbech is a chav town because kids there get called things like Tristan...".

There's another Tristan at my Tristan's preschool; other Tristan's mother has incredibly brown awful looking teeth.... And she comes across as .... er, uneducated is nicest I can put it. It hasn't instilled me with confidence in the choice of my son's name.

IF mozhe is a fraud, I imagine she could just be a lonely mum or even wanna-be mum who wished she had the jetset lifestyle, alpha career position, big happy family, etc. I'm not convinced by her story, but would be willing to be sympathic about the reasons why someone came up with a false story like this.

Greensleeves · 17/07/2007 11:18

Sorry Enid, I don't agree. I am shaking with bloody anger here, I think I had better leave this alone now.

dobbysayswoof · 17/07/2007 11:18

I agree Enid, but it's not just mockery. People are being cruel (not you btw).

Agree with Greeny too. Mozhe won't care, I suspect, but IMO this sort of stuff shows mn in a really bad light. It's an eye-opener for me - some mners have shown their true colours here. Just nasty

LieselVentouse · 17/07/2007 11:19

I havent witnessed any viscious attacks on this thread - its just MN stuff

JeremyVile · 17/07/2007 11:19

LV, have you read the thread - and you didn't notice any bitchiness?

In fact perhaps you're right, bitchiness is too light handed a word to describe some of the nonsense that has been spouted.

LieselVentouse · 17/07/2007 11:20

By who? Sorry I have missed that. I have noticed a lot of Xenia being mentioned here and I do like Xenia so thats uncalled for.

ggglimpopo · 17/07/2007 11:20

Yes, Ruty, but do they often conceive when hammered....
. after only a few months of trying,
. when they're 43 yrs old,
. after a tubal ligation reversal
. when they normally have a relatively modest BMI -- since Mozhe recently posted about how skinny she naturally is, rarely gains more than 10 lbs in pregnancy, etc?
. & while still fully breastfeeding twins?

I mean, could your body do that? I wonder if it would be an good case study for an academic fertility journal article.

I am 43. I got pregnant days after having a mirena removed. I was very unwell and was extremely underweight at the time....but I am sure no one here would judge me or speculate on my alcohol intake.

Just because one does not agree with Mohze does not give anyone the right to pull her apart.

Just like Anna's thread - this is pack bullying at its worst.

JeremyVile · 17/07/2007 11:20

Whatever.

Its there, i'm not repeating it for you.

Enid · 17/07/2007 11:21

actually to be fair I havent read the middle

LieselVentouse · 17/07/2007 11:22

To be fair I havent seen any personal viscious attacks on anyone - just a couple of pokes at the OP which I dont think is uncalled for given her two fingers attitude

ruty · 17/07/2007 11:22

i was agreeing with you ggg just in case anyone thought not!

Enid · 17/07/2007 11:23

ok have skim read

cant see antyhing shcoking tbhj

ok the digging over old posts is a bit low

dobbysayswoof · 17/07/2007 11:25

OK couple of random examples from depths of thread:

"if she were real - which I doubt very much - she would be a bloody hard woman."

"So are you saying that every pregnant woman NEEDS a weeks holidays after giving birth just because they carried a baby for 9 months!
Except it was barely 5 in this instance."

I shouldn't be repeating these choice comments but this is what I'm talking about. Below the belt.

ladylush · 17/07/2007 11:25

Enid people on here have said she doesn't deserve children (a horrible thing to say to anyone)and that they hope she has a terrible time when she's away and that they hope she can live with herself if anything happens to the lo. Is that bitchy enough? I think so.

Aitch · 17/07/2007 11:26

how does she have a two fingers attitude? why are the things that some people post taken as a personal affront by others? we don't all live the same lives or have the same experiences. poor mozhe, i hope this is deleted.
if she's a troll she doesn't need this here and if she isn't (which is my feeling) then she really doesn't need this here. the woman has just had a baby, has said that she is shocked by it and by how much the baby sleeps and that she hasn't formed a bond yet. i can understand why, especially given what mrsm, crunchie et al have said. this is the pits, really.

lljkk · 17/07/2007 11:26

Is Mozhe actually upset about her baby being in SCBU? Not having a go at her, I just haven't noticed her post anything like "I'm very worried", "It was so scarey him being born so early", "It was touch and go whether he would breathe on his own", etc.

I find that lack of worry quite peculiar (another anomaly). Maybe she just doesn't want to share worries with MN -- i could understand wanting to keep them private. Otherwise, I wish I could be so resolutely upbeat about my DC and my life, and I don't have half as many loved ones to worry about.

She has apologised for upsetting other people, but has she ever suggested that she was in the slightest bit upset by anything else anybody else wrote? I thought Mozhe was maybe very thick-skinned, like Xenia, neither ever loses their cool in an discussion. Admirable, truly.

ladylush · 17/07/2007 11:27

A lot of martyrs on this thread.

Walnutshell · 17/07/2007 11:27

If it's a genuine post written by a relatively sane person I can only feel a total lack of understanding and a fair dollop of disgust at the tone of the post in that context - very distasteful.

If it's a genuine post written by someone in a state of denial, I feel very sad for mozhe and cringe at some of the posts - many are well expressed and just represent differing viewpoints.

If it's a hoax, part of me is quietly impressed...

Aitch · 17/07/2007 11:28

her twins were preemie as well, i think, ljkk. not as young as 27, perhaps 32? so she has some experience. hell, if she wishes to go completely dissociative about the new baby until she knows he's okay then it's up to her.

ruty · 17/07/2007 11:28

I am concerned for her a bit, wonder if she has PND, really don't know. It is bizarre.

LieselVentouse · 17/07/2007 11:29

Its more the "well my babys in SCBU but anybody got any tips about St Barts"

Enid · 17/07/2007 11:29

oh well, sorry

I do think it is blodoy hard to go away to the caribbean for a week when your baby is in sbcu and there isnt a single mother on this thread who would do it - even the ones who have said they would have been tempted wouldnt actually have gone on holiday

and I dont think anyone DESERVeS a holiday away from their baby after having a baby either

oliveoil · 17/07/2007 11:29

By Greensleeves on Tue 17-Jul-07 11:18:14
Sorry Enid, I don't agree. I am shaking with bloody anger here, I think I had better leave this alone now.

oh come on, get a grip folks

francagoestohollywood · 17/07/2007 11:29

Just found this thread and I'm . I find this degree of bullying quite scary. And no, I wouldn't take the same decision as Mozhe, couldn't even contemplate to do something like that really.
Mrsmalaprop, excellent and enlighting post.