I love the idea of Caserio del Mirador-style setup p, i.e. basically self catering, but with someone else cooking/washing up dinner in the evenings, so we could have a nice meal at our accommodation. Maybe a place with a private terrace outside, where they bring you dinner. Preferably with a nice view. We have small children, and I'm not comfortable using a baby listening service or a babysitter who I don't know. I would love to avoid the cooking though, and to be able to really enjoy the evening together once the children are in bed.
I'm not too fussed on location, but am looking for somewhere where it'll be warm in May. France/Spain/Italy or similar would all work fine. Any thoughts very gratefully received!