I know there have been lots of questions about this but I've done a search and haven't found exactly what I'm looking for, so if you would be so kind as to respond again I would be eternally grateful. We are trying to plan a holiday to Devon or Cornwall with our two DCs, ages 5 and 3, and my MIL. DH and I are usually not too picky but MIL is flying in from the states and she is used to luxury travel, and has very high standards. The good news is she's funding the trip, so I'm hoping it will be a nice treat for all of us.
We'd like to find a very well-appointed 2-3 bedroom holiday cottage in a "nice"/ upmarket but family-friendly area accessible to things to do for small children. (MIL would have preferred a luxury hotel but with the kids self-catering and separate sleeping areas work much better.). Ideally we would be able to use the car as little as possible. We generally prefer quiet rather than crowded but with small kids we need to balance that with being near things to do and other families.
We've only lived in the UK for a short time and we don't know much about Devon or Cornwall. Does anyone have suggestions on where to stay that my MIL and kids will both enjoy? I would love any advice on where to look, how to find a cottage, what to avoid, etc. Budget is not a major factor. Thank you so much!