I'm a bit embarrassed about posting because I did a few months ago and got some really helpful replies, but I've lost them. One poster gave me her MILs details (she organises holidays in Africa) Anyway somewhat rashly I offered to pay for my son and grand-daughter to pay for a safari holiday and I had about 5 grand in mind, but looking on the internet it's more like 10 grand!!
Can anyone offer any advice (other than the obvious to forget the whole idea!) There is a special reason for this holiday.