So, it's DHs 40th in May half term and I've booked DM to look after the 3 kids. I want to do something special like go to New York but it is quite expensive -about £2000 before spending money and food. We're up for a bit of walking or scuba diving. Just something we can't do without children. DH is keen to go to Norway or similar and take the 2 eldest boys (6&9) and leave the baby at home. I can't do this. Where would you go if you had this opportunity?