My SIL and I get on very well but hardly ever see each other as she lives in Asia and I live in Ireland. Her DC are currently going to university her so she travels over with them, and there's no rush for her to go home so she stays for a few weeks.
This year she and I went away together to Ballymaloe cookery school and we had a great time, it all just came together very well, good weather, interesting course, lovely walks on the beach and very pleasant other participants. She would like to do something interesting next autumn, but I'm not sure that I can top this year's break. Any suggestions? Preferably Ireland but EU would also be ok, no spas, a little bit of activity, no spas, perhaps something to learn, no spas, indulgent with some down time. Did I mention no spas? 
TIA