Planning a week's holiday with in laws and 2 DC (will be aged 5 and 1) next July/August. In laws very keen to see chateaux but we also want a family friendly place to stay with other kids around, a pool etc. In laws not up for roughing it so don't think they'd want to camp but self catering gite/apartment in a tasteful complex or similar would be fine. Would also consider an all-inclusive/resort type place. Any suggestions please?