I'm going to see much loved US relatives in first couple of weeks of school holiday. They don't have kids but have friends with kids. They usually come to us but I really want to take dd now she's older. DH is a bit of a nervous traveller but he has been to these relatives' place before we were married so he's more relaxed.
This is dd's first plane flight too ( 8) !
We have guide books for kids (lonely planet kiddie book etc) and local knowledge of relatives but your top tips would be appreciated.