Hello
Firstly I will apologise as I am a bit of a snob but the last time I went to an AI hotel I was told "we like the hotel but outside its so dirty". This was in Bali FFS and they had travelled 16 hours to get there!! Rant over 
DH and I have finally come round to the fact the kids will love the many pools, making friends, cheesy activities kind of holiday (they are 3 and 6 now) rather than our more recent independent trips (and I love these things too TBH).
So I want to try an AI/resort holiday but I really don't want to spend my holiday surrounded by people who think all Spain has to offer is a nice beach and all day breakfasts IYSWIM?
I am not really a fussy person, I just want a nice hotel, nice beach, good food (with some variety/local dishes) and for the kids to have fun and make friends.
Any ideas anyone??
Thanks