Hi there, our family (dh, me and teenage ds and dd) are going to Japan next spring for three weeks (first three weeks in March). We are planning to get a Japan Rail pass and travel around a fair bit. Both dd and ds are learning Japanese at school so will have some familiarity with the language (dh and I are hoping to have a bit of tutoring too) but it's a bit daunting!
We were planning to spend a few days in Tokyo, and definitely want to go to Kyoto, Nara, Hiroshima, Miyajima and Yakushima (ideally with a bit of a loop, from Tokyo to Yakushima and back). We want to stay at an onsen and I'd like to stay at a temple too. Looking for a bit of new Japan and a bit of old, and to see some countryside, town and city. dh and dd are huge anime fans and we all love Studio Ghibli (will be going to the museum and hopefully to see the house from Totoro too).
If anyone has done a similar trip and could share what worked for them, or lives in Japan and has some insight we'd be very grateful. We've booked our flights but are getting a bit scared about booking everything else.