I would like to take DD2 who is 14 to Pompeii somewhen this winter/ spring as she is doing a classical civilisation GCSE this year and we think it would be useful. Some of her friends are going in a couple of weeks but we missed out on going with them for various reasons. She's home ed so it can be in term time with no worries (the home ed being why we do a lot of educational trips).
It would be just me and her. It needs to be cheap. We can slum it as much as is needed but I suspect Youth Hostels may not take her at under 16. I was hoping for cheap flights but she has never flown and would prefer the coach - she doesn't like the idea of flying. Train would be fine too. I used to hitch in my wilder younger days but would not do that with a 14 year old. I've done Europe by coach and car before (as has she) so she does have some idea of what a long way it is! I don't want to drive all that way myself; before I've had DH to take turns.
We've tended to holiday in the UK in recent years so I'm out of touch with getting holidays abroad. Added to that, before we had the girls I was very much a "fly to a place and worry about accommodation when you get there" kind of person. That's OK when you're 20 and don't mind sleeping on a beach! However, sadly I have very little more disposable income now than I did then.
Any advice would be much appreciated. :)