I'm not quite sure in what form what we're looking for exists, but I'm sure you guys will have some ideas...
We like villa-based holidays with a relaxed, 'at home' feel. We don't like resorts or hotels much - not relaxing enough with our tiny children. We don't want to cook / wash up. we don't mind sharing / communal-type set ups, or on our own. we may be able to rope in various relations to increase the party size. we can't use childcare (one child has SN, plus we are fairly clingy about seeing our children on our holidays).
So what we want is a self-catering villa with someone who cooks (ski-chalet-type thing?). Think PPH does holidays like this, in which case, is probably outside our budget!
Any ideas?