Are you staying onsite, Hermione? That's a real advantage when you have people who have different touring philosophies. We are in a villa and only have one car so have to compromise. OMG, the year we went with my DB and SIL was a nightmare - they get up, play with their kids for a bit, slowly have breakfast then think about getting a bag packed and are ready to leave somewhere around noon. Whereas we've packed all our bags and got everything ready the night before and are sitting at the door, waiting from about 8am! We decided on having 2 cars if we ever go with them again
We're very different in the parks too. We run a military-style operation - do one ride then march straight to the next, FastPasses all planned, know exactly what we're doing etc. whereas they wander around slowly going "hmmmm, what shall we do next? Not sure, shall we stop for a coffee and have a think about it?" AAAAARRRGGGHHH, NO, GET MOVING PEOPLE - HUP, 2, 3, 4!!!
The time after that we went without them and I was in charge of planning - my mum said she couldn't believe how much we get done when I'm in charge 
Strawberry, yes rope-drop is the earliest time you get there. So called because you're allowed into Main Street before official opening time and they hold a rope up to stop you getting into the lands. Then at official opening time hey literally 'drop the rope' and you're allowed onto the rides. As for the wine, I can't remember the prices but I know it comes in litre bottles 
DogHairs, re. our DDs - this is going to be worse when she realises she's going to have her photo taken in the park a lot! I'm thinking I'll keep a make-up bag and hairbrush in the car and she can do it on the way.
Has anyone been to Be Our Guest? I think that's the only ADR I'll do. I've never been but have always wanted to.