My dad is the same about MM - I made the mistake of telling him how much it cost, oops :)
We're staying in a villa but are going to Universal for 2 nights. We stayed at Universal for one night last time we went, for the passes, and it was the highlight of the holiday so we're staying for 2 nights this time! Seems a bit crazy, paying for a hotel for 2 nights when the villa is already paid for but it was just wonderful and I can't see us ever doing Orlando any other way now,
LOL at you writing the shopping list already :) I'm the same - I already know what I want to buy and we've got over 200 days to go
I will prob write a list in advance but I also like doing it on the plane - we hand the list around the family and it's something to get excited about.