Emirates are good, especially business but they have gone downhill in recent years, i flew back from dubai last week and our flight was overbooked and we had to wait 12 hours till next flight despite having paid £1600 for our flights!
The one and only Royal Mirage is my fav hotel, i would steer clear of atlantis and JBH (very touristy and very expensive and not that great)
The Hilton and sheraton are very old and dated so would also avoid.
The Madinat although tourist trap again is a lovely hotel to stay in.
Friday brunch is a must and i have been to alllot lol
Al qusar which is part of the madinat is by far the best in my opinion (and biggest, you get a map to round with lol)
Mina a salam is also good and there are buy one get one free vouchers in the entertainer books
Spectrum on one at The Fairmont is great but is inside and abit more 'stuffy' but excellent food and free flowing moet.
I would not go all inclusive, too many good resturants in dubai to waste on one place.
The beach bar and grill @ the one and only
Frankies is excellent (on the Walk)
Trader vics at the madinat
Table 9 at the downtown hilton
Ruth Chrises at the address marina
Loads of good resurants at the madinat
Hunters grill at the westin
Peacocks at the Sheraton
The brazilian resturant in the hilton
The bhudda bar (vv expensive)
There is absolutley no problem with 2 woman going out alone, believe me i have been wining, dining and clubbing there for last 8 years lol
I personally dont like afternoon tea so wouldnt go, but i have had dinner at the burj and i didnt like the hotel (too gaudy) and the food was below average.
Have a great time.