My 40th is coming up early next year and (childcare permitting) dh and I are going to try to get away for a weekend by ourselves 
Not sure where to go though. Dh suggested Barcelona which sounds lovely but I don't know what it will be like in January. And I'm slightly worried about going abroad without the kids. In the UK, I've thought of Babington House which looks fab with probably a fair bit to do in the area.
Any other suggestions?