Looking at apartments and villas with shared or private pools, and prices are very good compared to France or Italy.
I love "real" Spain and don't love the full English breakfast/Irish pub kind of place, but on the other hand fancy somewhere with a bit of life to it and near the beach.
I'd love somewhere where we can easily stroll out for tapas and a glass of rioja without being mobbed by the Club 1830 crowd but don't mind bumping into fellow english speaking families.
Nerja appears to tick all the boxes. Have you been? Or is there somewhere even better?