As far as I know, she’s not, and she says herself she’s not.
she has suffered from poor mental health over the years, including depression and anxiety, but no neurodiversity as far as I know.
She did stick out like a sore thumb from a young age and I feel people probably expected too much from her at a young age. But I think she was just sold a story that many of us were - get a good degree from a good uni and you’ll be set.
In reality, she was very good at English from a young age, but by her degree she was nothing remarkable. She got a 2:1.
Whereas she struggled hugely with maths and science, which I think has really let her down.
As for myself, I didn’t go to Oxbridge, but I got a good degree from a good uni, but very much agree with what @PennyAnnLanesays - I had no idea about applying for grad jobs etc. as a result I ended up in some poorly paying jobs in my early 20s. This was before the advent of social media etc so I didn’t really know what my peers were up to as it was harder to keep in touch.
i realise now that they were on grad pathways with careers marked out.
I’m on the right path now, in my late 40s, but I very much took the long road.