Musing whilst deadheading in the garden, and returning to the conversation.
I do wonder whether that's why there is so much unhappiness in the younger generations. Constantly having their goalposts moved. Get top marks in your exams, move up, move up, get better marks, get into the top universities, get a first. But you can't kick back at all, ever. No rest for you, no blissful summers of idleness. You need to work at that cafe, that shop, keep working, working, until you prove you are worthy of @Cakeandusername notice.
No wonder they are all burnt out before they even begin their 40+ years in the workplace (if they ever get an interview).
While I'm at it...... What happens if, as now, all those entry level jobs are gone?!