I agree @bluefineliner ... I think non-medic applicants (and their well-meaning parents) asking why X and not Oxbridge/Imperial and then suggesting that a 'grade 8 piano' will get me x number of points for UCAS really drive me nuts.
I'm quite thankful that DS is not that easily influenced (or at least I don't think so), and has been like that since young. He'd be the one playing with trains and the others with cars at the nursery, and he'd be ok with that. The others will then come round and play trains with him, so he's not had to go join them, or make them join him.
I think another point to note, if I may... about snobbery of universities. I have a PhD from a Russell Group (I didn't realise at that time, what RG meant). I've received prestigious postdoc scholarships. I've also worked in non-RG places. I currently work in one. My colleagues come from all over. My previous colleagues were the same. That professor who is now an Oxbridge prof has also worked elsewhere. The prof who's now the dean at a post-92 has come from Warwick. It's just rather strange that people base things on what they see at one moment of time, and then that's it.
In the open day circuit the last year or so, I've met med school deans who were heads of research groups at Oxbridge (that's the BSMS dean btw). I've also met other consultants who openly say they only studied medicine at university x because they got rejected elsewhere (these are people in their 40s/50s/60s) - got through clearing even! These are people who both work as consultants and also teach our DCs in med schools.
Ok - rant over. Back to the email pile that's come in over the weekend! 😅