@ElaineMBenes I didn’t mean you. However it’s not healthy to have experts examining their own navels either.
Yes, it was clear @TizerorFizz that you meant me, although I can understand Elaine’s confusion because you referred to “continuing lectures” when I haven’t done that.
I don’t think we need these continuing lectures from those who know more and like to tell the rest of us off. Just accept the poster felt aggrieved! We don’t all get terminology correct but we don’t mean harm.
You have missed - deliberately or otherwise - that the reason “I know more” about SEN and disability is because I am an adult with a disability and a condition that’s regarded as SEN. I can assure you, I absolutely do not enjoy “telling anyone off” when they’re ableist, I wish more than anything I didn’t have to. The fact you think the poster meant well shows you don’t understand the subtext & complete ignorance of their post, and clearly MNHQ agreed it was offensive and breaches talk guidelines as that post is deleted.
Would you chastise a black Mumsnetter for picking someone up on a racist comment and minimised the inappropriateness? Actually, I fear you might.
You have a nerve talking about people liking to lecture others about things they know more about. Very hypocritical.
I’ve been on the Further & Higher Ed boards for the past 6 or more years and throughout that time you’ve repeatedly - under a succession of obvious name changes - come into year or subject specific HE threads and asked why someone’s DC was bothering to do X degree at Y university as it was essentially worthless. It’s fucking rude. You did it fairly recently to the OP on a thread I was on for those of us whose DC are about to study a certain subject at university, when the places were already confirmed. I didn’t pick you up on it but will in future. I’ve seen others do so in the past.
Elaine referred to your profession. It seems to be Professional Education Boards Mumsnetter ™️. You’re retired, you never worked in HE and your DC left university over 10 years ago so your first or rather second-hand knowledge isn’t recent. Of course you have a right to post and I personally agree with some of your opinions, but you don’t have the right or authority to publicly criticise posters for pointing out ableism or for their DC choosing the ‘wrong’ course at a ‘pointless’ university.