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University snobbery

244 replies

nysw · 07/05/2024 20:36

Just wondering if anyone has come across this from adults/parents?

That is all

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ElaineMBenes · 07/05/2024 21:50

International students who get in with much lower grades?!

That old chestnut 🙄

They do care about rankings though, certain markets are very ranking sensitive. And they're interested in overall ranking not subject ranking. Whereas my advice would always be to look at the subject ranking.

tridento · 07/05/2024 21:53

Pinkypinkyplonk · 07/05/2024 20:52

I have friends who have three kids, at Cambridge, Durham and Exeter, and yes they look down on everyone else’s kids!!

Edited

I'm surprised they haven't ghosted the one at Exeter

tridento · 07/05/2024 22:00

everythingisgoingup · 07/05/2024 21:39

I know my daughter's friend is snobby about Bath 'it only does Bachelor of Science degrees'

Apparently she feels this is better than the Universities everyone else goes to😂

Well she's wrong. How embarrassing. They do a BA in education, various BA in modern languages off the top of my head

everythingisgoingup · 07/05/2024 22:01

Thanks tridento I never checked it out when she said, she has form for being an idiot (snob) 😂

Katieweasel · 07/05/2024 22:08

My DS is off to Jagiellonian University in Krakow. He wants to experience a different culture, learn a different language and study on an international course. The number of negative remarks we've had is unbelievable. It's a great University, a brilliant course and will cost a fraction of the price of a UK university which means he should hopefully leave university without any debt.

TizerorFizz · 07/05/2024 22:08

To help social mobility - aim high. It’s interesting that the Oxbridge topic is a constant on MN. I always notice on any thread, posters always say if they went there. They might be totally humble people, but it’s always dropped into a conversation. In real life too. People you have literally just met! No one else does this. This thread will prove me right. I guarantee it.

nysw · 07/05/2024 22:12

Katieweasel · 07/05/2024 22:08

My DS is off to Jagiellonian University in Krakow. He wants to experience a different culture, learn a different language and study on an international course. The number of negative remarks we've had is unbelievable. It's a great University, a brilliant course and will cost a fraction of the price of a UK university which means he should hopefully leave university without any debt.

Are you polish citizens?

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Bs0u416d · 07/05/2024 22:13

This is most definitely a thing, I can't believe anyone thinks it's isn't. Often keenly felt in cities where there is both a redbrick and a new ex-poly.

VenetiaHallisWellPosh · 07/05/2024 22:15

My daughter wants to do photography so naturally I want her to get into UAL Glasgow or Leeds Arts...but she's also looking at "new" university Ravensbourne which has excellent facilities but isn't as "known"...which makes me nervous...but is local...😬.

I think it's natural to have some bragging rights though 😂

Katieweasel · 07/05/2024 22:15

No we're not Polish. He has applied as an international student. The course is taught in English.

Gingertam · 07/05/2024 22:16

It's because every man and his dog go to university now so people like to differentiate between the ex polys and the traditional universities. We have a number of graduates and I notice they like to stress that they went to the "University of" or Russell Group. You do need higher grades to get on the courses so I suppose they have a point. People are kidding themselves if they think the actual institution doesn't matter and it's just the subject being studied. Not saying it's right but it's the way it is.

PhotoDad · 07/05/2024 22:19

VenetiaHallisWellPosh · 07/05/2024 22:15

My daughter wants to do photography so naturally I want her to get into UAL Glasgow or Leeds Arts...but she's also looking at "new" university Ravensbourne which has excellent facilities but isn't as "known"...which makes me nervous...but is local...😬.

I think it's natural to have some bragging rights though 😂

Drop into the Arts threads in the HE board and you'll see all sorts of universities which are never mentioned anywhere else on MN! And the pecking/bragging order there (insofar as there is one) is also completely different.

Mayim · 07/05/2024 22:22

I feel that some schools encourage this by perpetuating the myth that RG unis are intrinsically better. I haven't come across this in real life - only on MN and to some extent, the FB page - What I wished I knew about university. In the case of the latter (and to its credit), these views are usually challenged.

Fizbosshoes · 07/05/2024 22:22

My DC school is pretty competitive with another school in the town.
One of their selling points of the 6th form is X % of students go on to do STEM subjects at Oxbridge and RG unis.
Then at the UCAS talk , totally played down RG unis, saying they weren't the be all and end all. 🙄

clary · 07/05/2024 22:47

anythinginapinch · 07/05/2024 21:50

Bloody hell. We are not all as capable, as academic, as clever as everyone else. Some universities are better than others. They take the brighter students. It's a fact. We do not live in some fantasy land where all universities are equal. Yes of course outliers exist - exceptional students come from all universities - but in the main, a student going to Durham is on the balance of probabilities more academic, and likely to have a better career, than a student going to Bath Spa.

Think you could have picked a better second example there! Ds2's mate studied maths at Bath and needed A-starAA.

BiancaBlank · 07/05/2024 22:53

Not at Bath Spa, he didn’t. They don’t even offer maths

SiobhanSharpe · 07/05/2024 22:53

Katieweasel · 07/05/2024 22:08

My DS is off to Jagiellonian University in Krakow. He wants to experience a different culture, learn a different language and study on an international course. The number of negative remarks we've had is unbelievable. It's a great University, a brilliant course and will cost a fraction of the price of a UK university which means he should hopefully leave university without any debt.

That sounds fantastic, what a wonderful opportunity. Many congratulations to him.
(And i think at least some of the negative remarks are just jealousy)

clary · 07/05/2024 22:56

Gingertam · 07/05/2024 22:16

It's because every man and his dog go to university now so people like to differentiate between the ex polys and the traditional universities. We have a number of graduates and I notice they like to stress that they went to the "University of" or Russell Group. You do need higher grades to get on the courses so I suppose they have a point. People are kidding themselves if they think the actual institution doesn't matter and it's just the subject being studied. Not saying it's right but it's the way it is.

I'm not sure that "University of" signifies anything either does it?

I mean it's university of West of England which, while it is actually a great uni withca super sporting offer, is a former poly. UEA is also not perhaps a top tier uni? And Loughborough, usually highly ranked, is just Loughborough University. No of.

PossiblyNow · 07/05/2024 22:56

TizerorFizz · 07/05/2024 22:08

To help social mobility - aim high. It’s interesting that the Oxbridge topic is a constant on MN. I always notice on any thread, posters always say if they went there. They might be totally humble people, but it’s always dropped into a conversation. In real life too. People you have literally just met! No one else does this. This thread will prove me right. I guarantee it.

It really doesn’t.

clary · 07/05/2024 22:58

BiancaBlank · 07/05/2024 22:53

Not at Bath Spa, he didn’t. They don’t even offer maths

Ah OK apologies I was muddling up Bath Spa the railway station with the main uni! Tbf it's late. You're quite correct :)

Gingertam · 07/05/2024 23:01

clary · 07/05/2024 22:56

I'm not sure that "University of" signifies anything either does it?

I mean it's university of West of England which, while it is actually a great uni withca super sporting offer, is a former poly. UEA is also not perhaps a top tier uni? And Loughborough, usually highly ranked, is just Loughborough University. No of.

Agree. I think it matters more in cities. University of York, University of Edinburgh etc .You can see the confusion on this thread. People thinking Bath Spa is University of Bath.

clary · 07/05/2024 23:03

Gingertam · 07/05/2024 23:01

Agree. I think it matters more in cities. University of York, University of Edinburgh etc .You can see the confusion on this thread. People thinking Bath Spa is University of Bath.

Haha that was me! It's clearly past my bedtime Grin

NewName24 · 07/05/2024 23:10

anythinginapinch · 07/05/2024 21:50

Bloody hell. We are not all as capable, as academic, as clever as everyone else. Some universities are better than others. They take the brighter students. It's a fact. We do not live in some fantasy land where all universities are equal. Yes of course outliers exist - exceptional students come from all universities - but in the main, a student going to Durham is on the balance of probabilities more academic, and likely to have a better career, than a student going to Bath Spa.

This.

Though I'm not sure just acknowledging or recognising that, makes anyone a snob.
Snobbery has to involve looking down on people.

Rainydayinlondon · 07/05/2024 23:14

Katieweasel · 07/05/2024 22:15

No we're not Polish. He has applied as an international student. The course is taught in English.

its such a prestigious university and of course a beautiful city and country.

gegs73 · 07/05/2024 23:18

Only on MN. I know a fair number of people with children at Oxford/Cambridge then Russell group who are obviously proud but most definitely don’t lord it over ‘lesser’ unis. Very bad taste to openly do this. Everyone is different as are universities 🤷‍♀️