My DS followed a slightly different path.
His decision making, at 17, during his ucas application, changed at the last minute from a chemistry degree, to MT, then back again.
From age 10, he performed at school and in a local amateur society.
Post A levels ( all A*) he committed to his chemistry degree and studied at Edinburgh Uni, chosen for all that it offered.
However, as luck would have it, and not really something he/we planned, Edinburgh was, of course, amazing for performing arts, including hosting The Fringe.
He joined ‘Footlights’, the MT society at Edinburgh Uni, completed his chemistry degree, whilst performing an annual production with Footlights, as well as their Fringe show every year too.
He worked for a year, in hospitality, to save some money & then applied to do a masters degree in MT. He completed this at the Royal Conservatoire of Scotland, in Glasgow, whilst working very part time ( zero hours/pick and choose contract) at The Hydro. ( and access to free amazing shows!).
He now has an agent based in London.
Has it turned out…yes in some ways. He has always been very grounded, always took the next step so he'd have no regrets. He wanted to see if he could and if he couldn't, he accepted that ‘he had tried and gone as far as he could’.
In other ways, he has potential to join a profession, have a career - we have a great relationship and can laugh about him getting ‘a proper job’!
We all want our DC’s to be the best they can be.
He works, very happily in a coffee shop.
MT work offered is varied, including a Lapland elf! Maybe not his dream job…I suppose agents only earn when the performer earns, so they offer a range of opportunities. Does he need to have a masters degree in MT to be an elf….I’m not convinced…😆
Is there the feeling that he ‘could do more’ - yes, tbh.
How long does he give this? Will he have to make a decision to commit to that ‘proper job’, will he have missed his opportunity with this too? (graduate schemes etc). I see him earning just above minimum wage, getting by - but only just.
Will that major performing job come? Very uncertain!
It really is a long tough road!
Apologies for a bit if a ramble, hoping it may be of use!