Hello, OP here, just thought I would report back on progress of which, so far, there is none! DD’s personal tutor, whom she gets on very well with, has been in touch with her to say that he is sorry but he cannot help as the exam is set by the other limb of her course (ie if she was doing History and Economics, he is History, exam is economics). The dept who set the exams have failed to contact her (unsurprising given dd’s reports of them being utterly shit) as have disability services.
In terms of all the scrapping, I’m not sure what to say. @poetryandwine you seem to find it impossible to admit you know little about the real struggles of ASD and ADHD students. In addition it was this comment I have had several personal tutees with ASD. To a person they have been wonderful, and each of them has struggled with perfectionism. I know from sitting with DS officers on a number of Mitigating Circumstances panels that this is a typical (not to say uniform) ASD characteristics which I think was where you were trying to imply you understand about autism. At this point I hadn’t, I think, mentioned that dd is a perfectionist, you just assumed. It was a lucky guess, she is. But my autistic ds, for example, isn’t. He’s also pretty good at admin stuff, where dd isn’t.
@WriterOfWrongs honestly I don’t think you will receive any recognition of your efforts to express your frustration because pedantry is king and unless you can provide quotes and correct Harvard reference system standards they won’t be acceptable 😉
To those who said ‘in the real world dd will have to cope with xyz’ - I could not roll my eyes any harder. I am well aware that my dd is a square peg in a round holed world. I know her disabilities are not going to accepted or understand by most around her. I know she is going to face discrimination and disadvantage her whole life because she is not neuroTYPICAL. I also think, as I have said repeatedly (and to apparently deaf ears) that this overlap isn’t fair to ANY students, disabled or otherwise. I am proud that dd has stood up for herself, even if it makes no difference.
@bobomomo for the love of bloody Nora RTFT! I understood from the very beginning how 48 hour exams work, I said, she’s in her THIRD year, this is not her first 48 hour exams, she understands and I understand how they bloody well work!
Anyway I left this thread because it was getting so nasty, I just thought the kinder academics might be interested in my small update.