Hi, as you asked
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yes your wording of "I have had several personal tutees with ASD. To a person they have been wonderful" felt cringeworthy to me. It felt patronising. I think you recognise know though that it was awkwardly worded and I appreciate you didn't meant it like that.
The next point was "each of them has struggled with perfectionism" when in the post from the OP you were replying to, the OP didn't mention perfectionism at all and gave a much more complex picture of her DD's executive functioning issues. It came across as simplistic and as if you understood, when while I think you're well-meaning and caring, your repeated talk of guidance and the expected amount of time to spend on an exam implies to me that honestly, you don't really get it (and you're clearly you're not the only one, you get it more than most). And that's a not a problem, but someone thinking they understand fully and knows best is problematic.
This is how I see it as someone who has ADHD and has postgrad degrees - so has experience of further ed system - and an 18 yo with autism & ADHD. I don't know if it's how the OP's DD views it of course but it might help her in explaining her POV and for academics on here to understand how she'll view it and how this could be an issue for their own neurodivergent students:
*if universities have a policy that 2 overlapping 48 hour exams won't be regarded as a clash, then this should have been made clear to all students in advance, and expressly clear to all autistic/neurodivergent students. That will make their expectation clear. The expectation an autistic or ADHD person has is critical. It shouldn't be up to these students to read it in the fine print, it's something that should be made clear. If it had been made clear to the OP's DD, it's very possible (having a daughter with the same conditions) the DD would not be objecting. Because her expectations had been managed and she'd had time to process it.
*regardless of what the guidance says about how time should be used within the 48 hour period, that is NOT how an ADHD/autistic student will view it. Because difficulties with time is a key part of the conditions. I would also still view it as 48 hours. Doesn't mean I'd work the whole time period at all. Far from it. But my brain would be focused on the 48 hours and not the guidance of say 3 hrs.
*having 2x 48 hour exam periods to juggle unexpectedly, and therefore halving their amount of time for each, will cause someone with ADHD and ASD to feel overwhelmed and panic. Again, it doesn't matter the the guidance says it should take (eg) 3 hours. That is not how our brains work.
*yes the university may give 48 hours when it won't take that long because 'life' will happen and they consider having another exam as being one of those situations akin to another student say experiencing a power cut - but it's not the same IMO because the scheduling of the overlap came from the university, it isn't something that 'arises' naturally.