No 2nd interviews here. DS will be a bit disappointed as he felt his very narrow 1st interview which just asked about an unseen source didn’t go well for him. He’d have liked an opportunity to discuss the topics of his essay and mentioned on his PS too, as most seem to have been able to do. But it is what it is.
Here, although we know nothing is certain until 9 Jan and that surprises happen every year in all directions, we are all working on the basis it’s g pretty certainly a ‘no’ and will be focused on forthcoming mocks and thinking about other unis and courses - looking ahead. 9 Jan will still be a bit disappointing for DS but I don’t think it will be soul destroying. He’s moving on now really. And I’m glad to say that although he didn’t feel he had a good interview experience really, he’s enormously proud of having got this far when he didn’t think he would, and knows he got a lot out of prepping etc. And we feel the same…it was always going to be a long shot and we saw getting an interview or finally a place as all bonuses to be enjoyed if they came, but not expected or to be devastated by if they didn’t. Really think it’s the end of the road for us, but I’m sure people will say you just cannot know…but in his case, we think we do. And that is fine.
Hoping all those with 1st interviews this week feel they get a good go, and those called for 2nd interviews fell they get to do themselves justice. After that, what can anyone do but accept it’s out of their hands and wait. There will be good things ahead for all these talented and able young people and having a go at this process is part of life’s rich tapestry and all of them have added some further threads to their own over this term. There might be some scars and regrets or sadnesses, but hopefully it will have built them up and helped them in different ways, regardless of outcome.
And to the parents on these threads - your support of your teens and engagement with this process, and no doubt other important things in their lives - well, how fortunate these kids are, no matter what their background is. I hope we all have some sense of being proud too of whatever small role we have played in helping them along the way to get here. We will all be there for them in Jan whatever the outcome and beyond that too. I think that’s more important than we or they could probably know.